2007-02-12 21:49:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions. Wait till you need him, then see if he bolts or stands firm. If he stays then you know he is a real man and worth keeping.
2007-02-13 00:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear "Wondering"
Your questions are very clear but very hard to answer.
Knowing whether or not someone is "the one" takes a very long time.
Sometimes we meet someone and become infatuated with them but that doesn't make them or soulmate.
The strongest relationships I know are based on a very deep friendship, respect and mutual attraction.
If the person you are asking about is someone you respect, someone who has similar life goals to yourself, someone who you admire and who admires you, someone who wants the same things you do, someone you can really talk to, then, he might possibly be "the one."
These are the qualities you should be looking for if you truly want a long-term relationship.
As far as knowing whether or not someone is playing you, ask yourself the following:
1. Does he call when he says he will?
2. Is he reliable, honest and trustworthy?
3. Can you count on him for help and friendship?
4. Does he tell the truth about his life and other relationships?
5. Does he come from a family which is intact and which has good values?
6. Is he doing well in his life: job and other relationships?
If you can safely answer all of this in a way that is satisfactory to yourself, the chances of you ending up with a trickster will be greatly diminished.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
2007-02-13 06:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is consistent. It takes a while to get to know someone. If he does what he says he will 99.9% of the time. If he doesn't hold back, such as acting secretive to try and heighten my interest in him. I want to know where I stand with someone. Does he like me or not? Is he still holding onto that extra girlfriend for sex, while he's scoping me out & measuring me up to her to see if I can meet all his needs--before he dumps her? Little stuff like that....
2007-02-13 05:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't trust their words...guys know very well to use sugar coated words to get what they want...just c if he stands by u and supports u most of the time...if u r in trouble he comes running for ur help without u even calling him out...and most importantly u can only find out by spending time with him...
2007-02-13 12:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by purple_spark 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His eyes will show whether he is actually in love or just for fun/
2007-02-13 07:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by vijayakumar n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions speaks louder than all his words, which may be all false.
2007-02-13 05:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every relationship depends on trust.
2007-02-17 05:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by anuranjan a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to test antone..
no one is perfect..
if you love him and he loves you too..then accept him as he is..
2007-02-13 12:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only by experience.
2007-02-13 08:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋