So there's this girl i've been talking to online, she's cool and we've gotten to know each other the more that we've talked.
So I decided to ask her out for valentines day and was turned down, as according to her she is getting to know a guy...
she mentioned that she's not dating him, but she wouldn't feel right meeting up another guy on valentine's day.
She mentioned how it's not her intent to dissapoint or hurt ppl and that she thinks i'm a nice guy and she would like to meet up some day and doesn't want our convos to be affected by this.
So afterwards i just assured her it's fine and not to worry about anything, it was okay (yea right)
Now i really don't know how to proceed..., i could ignore her and move on or since she technically isn't "dating" get closer to her in hopes of something developing? maybe indirectly show her what she's missing out on?
I really just don't know what to do or how to proceed, thus is why i ask for advice on how to continue, what do i do?
2007-02-12 21:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by CRGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've also been advised to let her come to me, i.e let her be the one to intiate a conversation for a change instead of me always starting it, if she so wants to continue our conversations as she said.. (leaving the ball in her court if you will)
I'm not too sure about this method, as she might take it as me not wanting to talk to her, thus she never contacts me, so in the end no one contacts anyone.
I also thought about another shot at asking her to hang out, but i didn't wanna seem to pushy, or anything, so yea i still don't know.
2007-02-12 21:42:18 · update #1
just take it slow and develop a friendship...maybe the other will come in time...good luck
2007-02-12 21:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what happens, just keep remembering that there are other fish in the sea. (That works both ways you know.) Well, if you feel comfortable doing it, just ask her straight out. Don't be too pushy and don't give any ultimatums (that's never a good idea) just ask her for a straight, honest answer and explain to her that you just want to know where to go from here. Anyway, there is no harm in taking things slow. Sometimes things aren't always what you expect.
2007-02-13 05:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I could give you is to get out from behind your keyboard and try to meet a real woman.There is no such thing as an internet relationship it is not real until you meet! If she doesn't want to meet it is no different than playing some sort of sim game.
2007-02-13 05:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by JOHN D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there know the feeling ...
but keep one thing in mind behind a keyboard one can be anything.
Just leave it to her to contact you, and for christ sake get out of the house mingle with people in your location.
Cause the big ???? will always be in a online relationship.
JOIN
2007-02-13 05:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by join_my_world_of_ignore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you need to find a live female. You think you know her but you don't. How do you even know it's a female on the other end. You don't and you should be more careful with your heart.
2007-02-13 05:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may try one more time for a set date. If you get the same response, you may just tell her thanks for her time and move on. There are many woman who would love to spend valentine's day with someone special, don't waste your time on this one.
2007-02-13 05:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm... ask her for a date... and seduce her...
2007-02-13 05:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by Rico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋