Me and my bloke recently broke up and he has gone back to the mother of his child (she cheated on his and he walked out) I knwo this sounds crazy but I really love him and miss him and I want to show him that he should be with me intead as we were really happy together. I still chat to his sis occasionally bt he's not allowed to text me as he doesnt want to rock the baot with her. Any ideas what I can do as I really want him back but dont wanna come across as a bunny boiler.
2007-02-12 21:36:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
walk up to him and talk to him be a honst as u can i mean hell most guys have the i dont date ex's but oviusly he went rebond cause he dosnt wana be alone iv done that myself love is very difacult to handle but only possible if ur willing to go the extra mile but tell him how u feel and what u think about when ur alone and be as open as u can and no matter what this might rock the boat but u wana be with him n not alone
2007-02-12 21:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by chris_anime_fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more then meets the eye.
You may love him but he has turned about and went back to a woman that has his child.
He may love her but just maybe he loves his child more.
Not saying its the right thing to do for him.
But its a loosing battle for you.
There is nothing you can do or you should do.
If you love him enough you let him go
if he loves you he will return
you cant keep what you didnt have
and you cant force anything ... you do your on the loosing end
if you hold on to your memory with him fine but dont wait around to see that he will return ...
JOIN
2007-02-12 21:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by join_my_world_of_ignore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone,he has history with the girl he's with now,news flash, they have a child together,and even if you do get him back,she will still always be in the picture,and you will look like a home wrecker,respect his decision and move on.Find someone who is yours exclusively,cos if you get this guy back,you will ALWAYS have to share him,even if thats just with his kid.Good luck.
2007-02-12 22:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do honey, Im sorry but he seems to have made his choice, they seem to have had a few problems (him and his girl) but they obviously trying to sort it out for their baby's sake.
In my view they are doing the right thing, I think you should let it go and give them a chance, I know it is hard but you cant make some one love you back, if you cant do it for your self do it for the baby, just let him go.
(there is always a chance that it wont work out between them, but just dont force it)
sorry to be so brutal but Im just been honest take care xx
2007-02-12 21:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you obviously broke up for a reason! he went straight back to the mother of his child! get over him! move on and find someone else
2007-02-12 21:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by aa_fugitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im sorry but let him go..he's made his bed and let him lie in it...do not fight over a man, can u imagine the pleasure he will get from this, please move on I know its not easy but would u seriously have him back after leaving u for another woman...??! Think about it...!!!
2007-02-12 21:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your already coming across as a bunny boiler,if he wanted you he would have stayed.
2007-02-12 21:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Pat R 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Difficult! Very difficult!
What sent him back; love, children or old flame? Whatever, it is difficult to win him back unless you entice him back with what he liked most from you! If there is any, lure him back with that!
All the best!
2007-02-12 21:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey forget him he has made up his mind, and you should not come second to any one plus they have a child he belongs there.go get a man who only belongs to you and you will sleep much better.
2007-02-12 21:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by eld 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL GROW UP.... IF HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU THEN HE WILL BE... BUT DONT WASTE YOUR TIME.. HE LEFT YOU TO GO BACK TO HER;... HE DID IT BY HIS OWN CHOICE SHE WASNT HOLDIN A GUN TO HIM........ THIS WAS HIIIIIIIIISSSSSSSS CHOICE...... SO STEP BACK WHEN YOUR READY GET YOURSELF BACK INTO THE DATING SCENE BUT OBVIOUSLY THINGS WERENT ALL THAT PREFECT NO MATTER HOW THEY APEARED IF HE WENT BACK TO HER....... AND IF HE DID IT FOR THE KID THEN THATS JUST BULL **** AND AN EASY EXCUSE. APARENTLY HES WHERE HE WANTS TO BE SINCE IT WAS HIS CHOICE SO ITS TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON... YEAH IT TAKES TIME BUT EVERY NEW BEGINNING COMES FROM SOME OTHER BEGINNINGS END
2007-02-12 21:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by jingles 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋