ok me n my partnet went out for the evening and my friend from next door was supposed to babysit, but she was feeling ill so her husband babysat instd, they have children of their own. before we went out my husband shut the computer down for the evening, but when we got home we found that he had been on our pc, he had deleted all the history and even run a hard drive cleaner on the pc which, what was he looking at, i need to know cos if it sumat illegal or kiddie porn or sumat, sumat needs to be done.
how should i approach the situation and how can ifind out what he looked at.
does anyone else find this abit weird, oh he tried to cover his tracks to by looking on ebay n clicking on a few things but it didnt work, im so angry
the nosy F**ker
2007-02-12 21:35:20 · 12 answers · asked by princesspink1984 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
My guess would be that he was looking at porn. The fact that he erased his history, ran the hard drive cleaner, etc. shouldn't make you angry. What should make you angry is that he was probably whacking off in front of your computer while he SHOULD HAVE been watching your child(ren). If he was just goofing off on the internet looking at eBay, doing research, looking up recipes--whatever--he wouldn't have gone to all the trouble of erasing his tracks. If I were you, I'd storm over there and ask him just what the f*ck he was doing while he was supposed to have been watching your kid(s). You didn't ask him over to beat off in the other room--you asked him over to babysit while you went out.
2007-02-13 05:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a secret camera in your room - next time he uses it, you will have solid proof which he cannot deny,
If he is using the internet to look at child porn, or anything else illegal - hand him over to the police..or better still..tell his wife first to show what kind of husband she has.
But on the other side of the coin - he could be perfectly innocent... so don't jump to conclusions before you've seen some evidence.
2007-02-13 01:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think he was looking at KIDDIE porn while looking after YOUR KIDS!!!
Get your priority's right girl.
If he's into that **** while looking after your kids, i'd be VERY worried.
I'd storm over there confront him and threaten to get your computer checked out by the police unless he tell's you exactly what he was doing.
It sounds like he's a dab hand at covering his tracks as well and that it's not the first time he's done it.
HELLO....alarm bells ringing.
2007-02-13 09:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by trickyrick32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that worried there are programs you can load on your PC that work in the background and he wont even know they are there let alone delete them.
Try a "keystroke logger" this software logs all the input from your keyboard and hides it in a file that is password protected.
The other way is to remove the power cable from the machine or the lead from your modem.
2007-02-13 01:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was looking at porn, being that he erased all the history, he saw an opportunity and took it. I would approach him about that. You will know by his reaction if he was or not, if you're a person who can read people well.
2007-02-13 03:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he took the trouble to erase the history, that in itself should raise a red flag somewhere. I would advice that you keep him away from your house and your kids and not have to agonize over this again and like others have stated, there's always hidden camera and key logger software.
2007-02-13 02:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm your more concerned that he looked at kiddie porn while babysitting your kids !?
u have got your priorities wrong here ...
but i have to say he was probably just looking at porn and was embarrassed ... it happens ... but girlie u need get your priorities in order !!
2007-02-12 22:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by jizzumonkey 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is quite hectic! You really should bring up the issue to him and try and find out what he was doing! Otherwise scare him into telling you what he did...say you are going to take legal actions! Good luck!
2007-02-12 22:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was prolly something disgusting or illegal. If nothing else, I might call the police and tell them, give dates and names.
It could have been he didn't want you to know he had been on it at all, and nothing illegal, but I don't like the smell of it.
--That Cheeky Lad
2007-02-12 23:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can install NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,it will block all porn sites quitely: http://www.netdogsoft.com
2007-02-13 03:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋