How do I know if my ex Still has feelings for me?

Question

Me and my girfreind just recently broke up, we were together for 3 years. She dumped me because she said she didn't love me anymore. We still talk to each other and I also go and visit her once a week or so because, I miss her so much. But she gives me these mix feelings, like she's happy when i'm there and sometimes she doesn't care at all. She told me the other day that I should come by more often but she didn't really sound like she meant it. She says that she feels good but I can see that she is unhappy. I have this feeling that she has found somebody else but I don't want to ask her. What can I do? I still love her

Answer 1

Just ask her

Answer 2

Sorry to hear about your pain mate. Its never easy when someone thats so close to you hurts you that much....

You should choose to accept the fact that she cared little enough about your relationship to be able to walk out on it. Once you realise that its ultimately her loss - not yours, it gets better.

Think about it,you have spent the last 3 years intimately entwining your lives, and its natural that there will be loneliness and moments where you both miss eachother. Its your choice whether you want to expose yourself to some more hurting - or not.

She does miss you, she is a bit unhappy about ending 3 years of effort, she may even mean it when she says you should come by more - that is until she realises that the reasons for her leaving is still there and that she just slipped up a bit.

Move on mate - somewhere there's a beautiful lass thats been waiting for you all her life!

Answer 3

i am sure u still have feelings and u care for her but i think it would be best if u stop the visits and take some time off ...if she is confused or does not know what she wants she will get in touch with u and maybe then u can talk to her about ur feelings and that its difficult to see her just as a friend
good luck and all the best

Answer 4

em well theres two options for u here

1. tell her hw u feel and see wot she says its the only way to really find out hw she feels about u

2. shake urself together and go out and find an even better girl one that will want to be wiht u all of the time instead of jst once a week

u will no which option is bets 4 u

Answer 5

i think that you need to stop going round to see her and talking to her all the time. you need to give yourself time to get over the break up and thats not going to happen while you are still in contact with her. i know that might seem like a hard thing to do but if you are talking to her and seeing her then you will just cling on to the hope that she might change her mind and you won't be able to move on. it doesnt mean that you can't talk to her etc if you bump into her etc but for the moment you need to accept that she broke up with you for a reason.

Answer 6

HUNNY MOVE ON.. DONT PLAY GAMES, EVERY FEMALE THAT DID THE DUMPING IN SOME WAY ENJOYS KNOWING THAT THERES A MAN ON A STRING OUT THERE FOR HER THAT SHE CAN PLAY GAMES WITH IN SUBTLE WAYS..... IF SHE DOES LOVE YOU BLAH BLAH YOU WILL KNOW IT AFTER YOU HAVE MOVED ON.......... IF U THINK SHES SEEING SOMEONE ELSE SHE WILL PROBABLY BECOME MORE OPEN TO TALKING HONESTLY WITH YOU ABOUT THINGS LIKE THAT AFTER YOU HAVE A GF AND SHE SEES THAT YOU HAVE MOVED ON.... I DIDNT SAY JUMP INTO BED WITH THE FIRST GIRL THAT COMES YOUR WAY..... BUT DATE AROUND DONT EVER SETTLE UNLESS SHES WHAT YOU WANT!!
BEST OF LUCK

Answer 7

Simple sit down and talk
honesty is the key to the world or knowledge ...

Why put yourself in a hardspot.

JOIN

Answer 8

MAN why dont u find someone and stop wasting ur time with that x thing she's just being nice coz she dumped u just,

Answer 9

Ask her, you need to know. Living in limbo land is no good. If you need to move on then so be it.