I really need help?

Question

Guys i dont know where to post this i just need a suggestion. Im just about to go mental with school. Every little thing i hate about it, to the point of thinking about ending my life just so i dont have to go. I dont know who to talk to, so i turn to you anything will help.

wow i just realized reading teenage anxiety.

Answer 1

There are usually school counselors that will help you get the assistance you need.

Answer 2

School isn't for everyone. If you end up dead because of it, what is the point? You need to seriously consider some alternatives or at the very least, get on the right track based on goals that YOU want to achieve that let you do what YOU want to do in life. Don't let anyone's expectations about what you "should" be doing with your life (parents included) hold you down or trap you. That is a quick way to a slow death. A lot of parents tell kids that if they don't utilize their intellectual, artistic, or creative gifts that they are "wasting" their lives. The only life wasted is one that is not happy and one that is lived for other people to the exclusion of the individual. Your life is not your parents and if you take your own life...then THAT would be the real waste. If something is making you THAT unhappy, you need to do some soul searching, some thinking, and get some help. You should call up student health ASAP and schedule in some emergency counseling. It can really help you get this out with a professional that can help you out. At most universities emergency counseling is provided for free, but if it isn't at your school student insurance is required to go to college, so that should cover you. At most universities emergency counseling is provided for free. If you can't get in to see someone (let them know this is a serious emergency here), ask them to refer you to somewhere in town. This is serious, so don't let it wait.

People are here...and if you really are considering suicide...there are crisis help numbers that you can call toll-free 24 hours 7 days a week. Here are a couple:

1-800-SUICIDE
1-800-784-2433

1-800-273-TALK
1-800-273-8255

If you don't feel comfortable calling one of these numbers, try reaching out to a friend or call your family if you need to (assuming they won't compound the problem).

Answer 3

don't panic.
get someone to talk to right now that you trust.
i would rather see you drop out of school for awhile then hurt yourself.
if you have to turn to the Internet then you have a serious problem
if you are just making this up you also have a more serious problem as this is called bad KARMA and you have already done an irreversible harm to your being and you or someone very close will be effected by this game you are playing...so
quit the school and seek professional help either way as you are not doing your self or anyone else a service being this way..good luck

Answer 4

First of all, I hated school, I never took notes hardly, and still got to pass school somehow....I never really got into school myself....no real friends after Year 10 and I felt really alone also....but you know you can carry on because really, firstly I don't know how old you are or what year you are in....that would have been useful information.....never the less....Maybe it's time for you to start work.....I don't know what you would do as you never mentioned anything about yourself in your question....but thats ok....If you can....And I stress if you can....go to see your school counsellor.....or Head Mistress/Principal and ask for help there and see where they direct you to go....don't just keep feeling really low, its not good for you...you know....seek help somewhere...like I have suggested and just lift yourself up, rise up inside yourself and tell youself, life is better than this....and do something....I just want reach out to you and give you a big hug...not buts about it....I think you need one.....Chin up try and do what I have suggested just try....go on...try it....it might work out....good luck and best wishes....LW...

Answer 5

Concentrate on the positive things about school. There must be at least one. Have you friends? Try talking to the school counselor, who will understand, because you certainly aren't alone. A lot of people hated school, including me. I got through it by taking Drama classes and getting good parts in the school plays.

Answer 6

Peace can be attained only by accepting and absorbing the painful, not by rejecting it. By rejecting it you will be in a constant inner war, a civil war; one hand will fight the other, and you will simply dissipate your energy.

A very fundamental thing to be remembered: only communion with psychological pain opens the door for its liberation and transcendence. All that is painful has to be accepted; a dialogue has to be created with it. It is you. There is no other way to go beyond it; the only way is to absorb it.

It has tremendous potential. Anger is energy, fear is energy, so is cowardice. All that happens to you has a great momentum, a great quantity of energy hidden in it. Once you accept it, that energy becomes yours. You become stronger, more spacious. You have a bigger inner world.

Psychological pain ends only by accepting it in its totality. It does not exist just because of the presence of some stimulus or reality termed painful. Rather, pain is produced by the interpretation of the fact or reality. This interpretation produces the tendency to avoid or resist that fact. Try to understand it: psychological pain is your own creation.

You go on condemning cowardice. It is because of that interpretation and condemnation that pain arises. Cowardice becomes a wound. You cannot accept it, and you cannot destroy it by rejecting it. Nothing is destroyed by being rejected; sooner or later you will have to cope with it. Again and again it will erupt, again and again it will disrupt your peace.

Only when the mind recoils from a fact or reality is there pain. You are recoiling from the facts of cowardice, fear, anger and sadness. Don't recoil. Psychological pain is part and parcel of the process of escape and resistance. Pain is not inherent in any feeling. The moment you decide to reject something, pain arises.
Watch it inside yourself, become a lab of great experimentation. Just see: you are feeling fear. It is dark and you are alone, and for miles there is nobody.

Now there are two possibilities. One is, reject the fear. Hold yourself tight so you won't start trembling with fear. Then the fear becomes painful: it is there and it hurts.

The second is, enjoy it. Tremble. Let it become a meditation. It is natural – the night is dark, danger is so close by, death can happen any moment. Enjoy it! Once you accept it, trembling is a dance. You will be surprised: if you cooperate with the trembling, if you become the trembling, all pain disappears. In fact if you tremble, instead of pain you will find a great upsurge of energy arising in you. That's exactly what the body wanted to do.

Why does trembling arise? Trembling is a chemical process; it releases energy, it prepares you to fight or take flight. The body is releasing chemicals into the blood; it is preparing you to face some danger. Maybe you will need to fight, or maybe you will have to run away. Both will need energy.

See the beauty of fear: it is simply trying to prepare you to accept a challenge. But rather than understanding fear, you start rejecting it. You say, “Remember what Osho used to say: ‘There is no death, the soul is immortal.’ An immortal soul, and trembling? Remember! Don't tremble; hold yourself in control!”
Now you are creating a contradiction. Your natural process is that of fear, and you are bringing ideals to interfere in the natural process. There will be pain because there will be conflict.

Don't bother about whether the soul is immortal or not. Right now the truth is that fear is there. Listen to this moment, and let this moment take you totally, allow this moment to possess you. Then there is no pain. Then the fear is a subtle dance of energies in you. It prepares you – it is a friend, it is not your enemy.

Your interpretations go on doing something wrong to you. Essentially, the feeling of psychological pain is created by the attempt to split the unity of consciousness into a duality: an observing entity which tries to run away from, distort, or overpower a rejected feeling. If consciousness in duality is the cause of the pain, then only consciousness in unity is the end of pain.

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This split that you create between the feeling – the fear, the anger – and yourself makes you two. You say, “I am here, the observer; and there is pain, the observed. I am not the pain.” This duality creates pain.

You are not the observed, you are not the observer; you are both. You are the observer and the observed.
Don't say, “I am feeling fear”; that is a wrong way of saying it. Don't say, “I am afraid.” Simply say, “In this moment I am fear.” Don't create any division.

When you say, “I am feeling fear” you are keeping yourself separate from the feeling. You are there somewhere far away, and the feeling is around you. This is the basic disunity. Say, “I am fear,” and watch. That's actually the case! When fear is there, you are fear. It is not that sometimes you feel love. When love is really there, you are love. And when anger is there, you are anger.

This is what Krishnamurti means when he says again and again: “The observer is the observed.” The seer is the seen, and the experiencer is the experience. Don't create this division of subject and object. This is the root cause of all misery, of all split.

One must not judge, one must not label or have any kind of desire or goal in regard to what arises in consciousness. There must be no sense of avoidance, resistance, condemnation, justification, distortion or attachment in regard to what arises, but only a choiceless awareness. Then self-communion is established.

Choiceless awareness is the ultimate key to open the innermost mystery of your being. Don't say it is good, don't say it is bad. When you say something is good, attachment arises, attraction arises. When you say something is bad, repulsion arises. Fear is fear, neither good nor bad. Don't evaluate, just let it be so.
When you are there without condemnation or justification, in that choiceless awareness all psychological pain simply evaporates like dewdrops in the early morning sun. And a pure, virgin space is left behind.

This oneness that is left behind when all pain disappears, when you are not divided in any way, when the observer has become the observed, this is the experience of god, samadhi, or whatever you will. In this state there is no self as such, because there is no observer-controller-judger. One is only that which arises and changes from moment to moment. Some moments it may be elation, other moments it may be sadness, tenderness, destructiveness, fear, loneliness....

In reality there is no other self to whom a particular feeling is happening. There is only the feeling itself. Meditate over it: there is only the feeling itself. Thus, nothing can be done about what is experientially arising in the moment. There is nobody else to do anything.

Whatsoever is, is, whether you accept it or not. Your acceptance or rejection makes no difference at all. If you accept it you have joy arising in you, if you reject it you have pain. But reality remains the same. You may have psychological pain; that is your creation because you were not able to accept and absorb something that was arising. You rejected truth; in rejection you became a prisoner. The truth liberates. Reject truth, and you will remain more and more imprisoned.

Answer 7

Tell your mum, I hate high school aswell but I've only got a year left ! It will be over sooner than you think then you can find a job you love :D Hang in there x

Answer 8

Listen bucko, high school is only what 4years of your life.
What you gonna do when u gotta work?
Everyone who works tells you they miss school, even just for learning. I wish i could go back and study harder, but now i must work to eat. You are lucky to be in school. Life isn't roses all the time.
Be a man and face what you don't like. It's only a few years.
Trust me, when it's over, you will miss it.

Answer 9

errr... the fact that u are still alive means that u wont kill urself and that u r asking for help. just go talk to ur counselor, or if u r in for the money, get a brain scan done and talk to a psychologist to help u. good luck.

Answer 10

Please do not end your life this is just a hard stage that everybody goes through if you would like to talk to me by my email which is [e-mail] I know it's hard I have been in your position a lot.