I like this girl.?

Question

There is this girl that i really like, but she is 3yrs younger than me. Should i ask her out and not care about age and get called a pedo or should i just leave her and stay being friends and no get called a pedo. I think this girl also likes me in the same way as i like her!
Please help me!!!!

I am 16 and she is 14 so its really 2 years!

Sorry my mistake!!

Answer 1

If you just kiss and dont have sex with her you should be ok.

Answer 2

Pedo what are u thinking Hun? If you like this girl and she feels the same way date her but make sure her parents know you are aware of the law and respect her and them. If you really like her and its mutual a long term relationship can work, I am not saying it wont be hard( no pun intended) but I am a mum of 4 kids 2 of each and have had to go through all this! I have learnt though that older lads treat girls a lot better than immature ones. Also to give you a bit of mind rest I am married to a man 8 years younger than me, at 8 yes I could of been hung and I wouldn't of even thought about it, but as you get older age is just a number x good luck and love falls when you least expect it

Answer 3

I used to date a guy who was about 2 years younger then me. We started dating when I was like 16. ALL my (girl) friends laughed and made jokes all the time. But I didn't care. I thought he was really mature. He actually was my first love. We dated for a few years.

I don't talk to him anymore. Just recently I found out that like 3 of my ex friends have recently slept with him. hahaha, and they said he was too young for me.

Anyways, age is just a number. If you like her that much, go for it! Good luck!

Answer 4

What's a pedo? I suppose you mean a paedophile, and if you use the word 'paedo' it simply means that you ARE a child (Paedo = child, same root as Paedatrician. Phile, from Filo = To love) And yhou would be correct! You are a child, and you love another child. I would advise you both to wait a couple of years at least before you start getting sexually active,.

Answer 5

I would say leave her alone, b/c most likely you are going to want sex eventually, and that would be illegal and being called a pedo or whatever would be the least of your problems.

Answer 6

Hallo randal,Are your mates going out with girls,as old as them or older?What would you want out of this realtionship if you did get to gether.As you know 14 is too young to get into serious realtionship,but why cant you be freinds.I think if you want to spend time with this girl then do it,its only when sex is mentioned is the age gap a bad thing.

Answer 7

age is nothing but a number as long as she isnt underage. if this helps, my dad is 3 years older than my mum. so what if you get called a pedo, when you guys get older, it wont matter no more, and you shouldnt care what other people think, if your happy than thats all you should care about.

Answer 8

If you both like each other then you're doing nothing wrong if you go out with each other. Take all the advice though and do not have sex.
You will be breaking the law and you can be charged.
Just don't do anything silly.

Answer 9

what is this world coming too? afraid to date a girl 3yrs younger than you because of gossip! Just do it and prove gossips wrong-life is too short ,abide by her parents rules and you should be o.k. Good Luck x

Answer 10

If you have sex on your mind forget it. Anyway I don't recall thinking about that when I was that age. I don't see anything wrong with being friends and maybe later when she is of age you might consider something more serious but by that time you will hopefully find someone else.

Answer 11

i dont think age matters by only 2 years....
yea ur 16 and shes 14 who cares if it makes u happy go 4 it!!!!