there is theis really adorable guy... he happens to like one of ma very good friends... but sadly she's going out with another... this guy really likes her... even though i met this guy recently.. he confides himself in me.. he s a bit upset n al... i've tried helping him... the way i can with words... i dnt know if i really like him... but he's soooooo adorable.. n i think i have a slight liking towards him... but i can't tell anyone this cz most of the friends know that he likes my friend..
i may not ever be able to go out with him.. but wen i see him i feel really sorry.. cz he seems to really like my friend.. n theres simply nothing i can du....
my friends pretty serious with her guy..
someone tell me wat to du..
2007-02-12 21:16:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A very good one.
Well, don't bother about what he is chessing or whom she is chassing.
Concentrate on YOUR chassing, persist and follow it through. He might realise that she is not for him and that YOU are for hnim.
All the best!
2007-02-12 21:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have two choices - go for the guy or leave the guy. and its totaly up to you. if you know that he likes your friend but she is goin out with another guy and loves him, then maybe he doesnt have a chance with your friend, and sooner or later he will have to let go. and by you being there for him will help. maybe you should stop give advices and listen to what he has to say, tell him that if he ever needs to chat about ANYTING you are here to listen, and dont forget to tell him that he can trust you, thats very important. dont tell any one that you like him because they might tease you about it, it depends on your friends or who you tell. Just dont forget to think before you do. if you really like him, then go for him, dont make it abvious, but show him that you DO care, a lot.
2007-02-13 05:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and enjoy the ride... It's kinda complicated what you wrote, but from my point of view, and I am a guy, you shouldn't be with people who you feel sorry for, pity relationships don't work out very perfectly, sweety. Just make him feel comfortable and when you sense he might be interested in you, ignore him, cause he is your friends bf...
GOOD LUCK!
M_T
2007-02-13 05:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Madd_Turk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing as how he trusts you already maybe you should tell him how you feel. Be open with him about how you feel so that he can realise that theres more fish in the sea and that he can give you a chance. Make sure the feeling you have for him isnt pity.
2007-02-13 05:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be his friend ............see where it leads; in time maybe he will realize that his girlfriend was you the whole time. Don't beat yourself up because you like him. Hey, your friend already has a bf. No need in letting a good guy go to waste.
2007-02-13 05:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by babyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your best to him.he need someone like you where he can lean on.. and your there to give him some advice but dont look forward that he going to like you too be just good friend of him..mayve he would chance his mind and look after you maybe he will realized that your more better than that girl that dont care about him..,
2007-02-13 05:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just advise him as best you can. And maybe he will let go of his crush on her and focus on you. (maybe)
2007-02-13 05:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit this complex thing
2007-02-13 05:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dorothy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋