I've been talking to this guy for 2 months and he is in the military. I've gotten really attached to him. I get butterflies in the pit of my stomach whenever hes near me, I am falling in love with him and I just found out that he is being relocated to england which is clear across the world from me. I want to tell him whole much he means to me but I am scared at the same time because he tells me all the time that he doesn't want to be attached to someone but its so hard not getting attached to him because of all the sweet things that he does and says to me. I am in love with him and I don't know how to tell him or even if I should. Please help me.....
2007-02-12 21:15:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u shouldn't, it's not an obligation after all. an love requires more of deeds than words.
but if it bothers u and u want badly to tell him, that's my advice:
find nice moment when both of u r happy and in good mood (not in bed), after nice going out of whatever and say:
i want to tell u something, but i don't want ur answer. promise me that u wouldn't answer if it does not feel right for u. so, i love u. and kiss him.
that's it. i guess.
worked for me.
guy said in some days that he appreciated that i was not pressing him to answer: me too. after a while he himself told me that he loves me.
but after all in a year we broke up. but we still have nice relations.
2007-02-12 21:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by saxa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in your best interest to keep the friendship good by saying nothing. If he already says he doesnt wanna be attached then he definately wont go for a long distance relationship. Rather just stay friends.
2007-02-12 21:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he told you he didn't want to be attached. This usually means a guy doesn't want to be "with", "hooked-up", or "steady" with anybody. It's a nice way of telling you to chill out. BUT, with Valentine's Day approaching, it sure gives you a good excuse to send a card, gift, and whatever ! Then again, he may get stuff like that from several girls ! (He must be a real good "talker".)
2007-02-12 21:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as though your feelings are reciprocated. Ask him for his address, and tell him you want to keep in touch with him. Take a little more time for you to get to know each other.
2007-02-12 21:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going too far away for you to love him and its only been 2 months.Tell him if you want but it won't make any difference hes going.It might be that he doesn't want to commit to anything besides his career
2007-02-12 21:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. Good luck
2007-02-12 21:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut and your ears open.
2007-02-12 21:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR ANY REGRETS GOOD LUCK
2007-02-12 21:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋