I have been seeing my new girlfreind for a few weeks now! and we have agreed to take things slow, as I am a little shy. Please could people recommend some ideas for kissing and a little foreplay to turn her on, I feel I a have been doing all right with kissing and stroking her curves but would like some advice for moving it on a little.
Thanks for any help to help a shy guy, who just wants to please his new girlfriend.
2007-02-12 20:52:04 · 12 answers · asked by Loader2000 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chloe m
What are you talking about, or is this some new move the kids are doing today, because I have not got a clue.
2007-02-12 21:33:59 · update #1
Great advice everybody, but just to clarify we are taking it slowly, so this means trying to keep the clothes on!
I am glad most off the women agree that taking it slow is a good thing!
2007-02-12 21:37:06 · update #2
My advice would be dont rush her,if your shy have a couple of drinks,it will take the edge of your nerves,but dont get too pi--ed up or you wont remember any of it,you sound like a nice bloke wanting to put your gf feelings first,use your imagination,whatever you decide to do,if she flinches at your touch or shys away from you,stop,and ask her what she does like and how far she wants to go,she'll respect you for that honestly.The most important advice,is dont plan it,it never turns out and you will feel uptight and stressed,your not going to you death after all,go with the flow,you will know when its right,and good luck.
2007-02-12 21:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude.. First you talk to her ear, softly.. but please don't be sitting on the bed next to each other nervous and sh*t, sit on the floor and have her back towards your chest, like, she sits in front of you, u get it right? And slowly with your finger tips, pet her between the neck and shoulder, and say this to her ear, very slow and calmly, don't f*ck it up " you are fuckin beautiful and I want you" then work your way down to her stomach, don't just reach for the prize, keep talkin to her ear and give small nibbles on the earloob, and with your finger tips, make 8 figures on her stomach, SLOWLY! Trust me, I wrote the god dam book on how to satisfy woman.. and this works like hell, and since you are a shy guy, you don't have to look at her, u r behind her and make sure her eyes are closed and there's no light, boosts up your confidence, anyways, after the stomach, go to her tighs, and by now you should hear her moaning, with your finger nails, not hurting her, scratch her tights up to her "prize" don't go under the panties, yet... slowly but kinda pressingly play with the prize, doesn't matter how or where... then slowly ask her " Do you like that baby?" and she prolly say yes.. and just keep doing it.. until she reacts as taking off her pants or something, the whole process should take about 15 to 20 min. then u get the prize!
Good Luck
M_T
2007-02-13 05:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Madd_Turk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it from a me... it should come natural... and where you are will play a huge role.
back of the car... is a no no.
sitting room while her or your parents are in the next room... is a no no
but time alone with her and no distractions is a go.
kiss her and "listen" to her body language, does she pull you closer, when you slide you hand on the edge of her bra, does she seem relaxed or shy away.same goes for down stairs. put hand on thigh... squeeze... then move up... very slowly... if starts closing legs STOP... if not carry on applying pressure. remember its all steps... but its feeling what she is comfortable with.
ps. don't think about your self be concerned about her and how she's feeling or what she wants.this shows respect and she'll be able to pick up on it and feel safe allowing you to touch her more easily. When you achieve that she'll be able enjoy the experience with passion rather than doing it because she feels that this is what you want.
remember it all boils down to ryt time, ryt place and feeling safe/comfortable.
2007-02-13 05:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by mikhail_luh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey whats up i can see you got a couple of shitty answers so far but check this out first of all is she ready for the next step second nibbling on the ears nibbling on the neck gently biting the lip make sure you turn her on before you try to go very far
2007-02-13 04:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by vamp_19772001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she looks pretty today in a sweet voice and smile. say something to make her giggle. hug her and start nuzzling her neck and nibble on her ear a little while saying sweet but not cheesy things in her ear. something about the first time u ever met. remember those things. details. have fun find what she likes and go with it.
2007-02-13 04:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, when the lights are off, and the time is right, youll know.
there aint no technique, no skills training.. couples have been making sweet love for a long time...
be gentle, be patient and above all, dont rush...
2007-02-13 04:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO, MY ADVICE IS THAT U TAKE IT SLOW AND FIND OUT WHAT YOUR GIRL LIKES, IF U TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW HER FIRST, U WILL END UP WITH A GOOD RELATIONSHIP, LATER IN THE FUTURE. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-13 04:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by abena823 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take things slow dont rush
2007-02-13 04:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes satiesfied what u did it now.. she would be satiesfied ever as long as she loves you no worries about..
2007-02-13 04:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap slap slap clap clap clap wowowowoooooo! PEACHS PEACHES PEACHS WOOOOOOO!
2007-02-13 05:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by chloe m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋