so i've been talkin to this guy... we decided that we were only dating each other... and at the time we talked about it i was against it but went with it anyway... but now i want a boyfriend but don't know how to go about it... I was just gonna let it happen naturally but i'm growing impatient... what should I do... I don't know how to bring it up, I was think valentines day!
2007-02-12 20:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 21... so growing up isn't the issue!
2007-02-12 21:01:05 · update #1
i'm 21... so growing up isn't the issue!
2007-02-12 21:01:06 · update #2
just ask him
2007-02-12 20:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by manbearpig 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is a game at this point. Be patient. Impatience is the number one way that deals like this are not sealed. If there is something good between you already, then it is already on its way there. I think if you try some huge acceleration on Valentines day it will backfire big. You want him to have genuine feelings. In fact make yourself unavailable Valentines- having to wait will make him more desperate to move forward. Just calm down. Trust me on this. Play it cool and you will have him genuinely. You can accelerate things by giving him certain signals. I don't know where you're at, but if you haven't kissed yet you can touch him a bit more like on the upper arm. Be seductive. Drive him crazy, be cheeky and wear something provocative. Somehow do something so he is forced to smell your perfume. You can tell him you like him just with a look into his eyes. DO NOT talk about the status of the relationship. Don't bring it up. He will come to you if you give it time. And thats what you want. Man if only guys had it so lucky. Enjoy the fact that he is agonising right now over what to do with you, he is just as impatient as you are. He is trying to plan it perfectly so he doesn't lose out on you
2007-02-13 05:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, I know that you don't need to grow up cause we're the same age. I would actually sit him down and tell him how you feel and tell him that you would like to move things along. Or if you are thinking about another person, I would be straight forward. I have learned in the last 3 years to be confident and straight forward. Good Luck.
2007-02-13 05:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by crazyinlove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating / having a boyfriend - I was unaware they were mutually exclusive. If you are dating him, thats a very good start. Most men are commitment-phobes so you can't expect one to comit to you straight away. After a few dates things should progress naturally, and if its meant to be its meant to be. However, Men are also incredibly proud so if a few dates down the line you still don't know where you stand, apply some reverse psychology and pretend to go (or actually go) on a date with a different guy, and the original guy you want will come running to you miraculously cured of his fear of commitment.
2007-02-13 04:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if u r a pretty, smart and funny girl, a boyfriend will probably find you... Trust me, there are over a million guys out there looking for a girl like you, and what do you know, before this month is over, a charmin dude might ask you out.. well it will be past valentines but.. hey there's always next year..
Good Luck!
M_T
2007-02-13 04:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Madd_Turk 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good idea. You couldn't get a better and romantic day than valentine day.
All the best!
2007-02-13 04:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey if u r looking for boy friend i am also looking for a lovable girl friend can we date because tommorrow is valentine's day if u r interested in the matter call me on 9825622702 or email me but fast because tommorrow is valentine's day
2007-02-13 05:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by love boy in Gandhidham 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask that guy out on valentines day
2007-02-13 04:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bf come and go. if its not yet time to have u cant do nothing.. but once it come u would be happy so just wait a litttle bit more time for your self
2007-02-13 04:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by lene 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well girl ur confusing ur self just let it go relax a little dont let it bring u down
2007-02-13 04:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he just want to date you,then don't push him,respect
what he said to you! Find another guy that will want you
to be his girlfriend.
2007-02-13 04:57:12 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋