My b/f is pretty much a all around rough and tumble tough guy.
Here he is so ya know what i mean-
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=1789462249
he's a really fit guy and he really isnt afraid of anything he's always doing dangerous things.
He will play with his zippo and just hold his hand above the flame and put out candles and ciggarettes with his fingers and tounge.
and he's always getting in fights he once punched a guy in the back of the head and slammed his head on a table for taking his seat so he's aggressive.
& every once in a while he'll get so angry he'll shake (pretty bad to all over his body)
and he'll get mad at little things like the other day he used apayphone and the call wouldnt go through so he started hitting the payphone.
So im just wondering what this could lead to?
How to calm him down when he gets angry.
&Why he is always burning himself and getting all cut up.
2007-02-12 20:24:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And sometimes he'll say things like your never gonna leave me are you?
or he'll bite me (nibble) and i'll say oww your gonna break my skin and he'll say like if i wanted to break the skin i would.
im 16 he's 17.
2007-02-12 20:25:34 · update #1
Yo description of yo bf fits a person whose not sane,he needs help,he has a mental problem which u cant do anything about but well qualified person,talk to his sisters or close relatives about his behaviour
2007-02-12 20:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The anger issues can be a sign of other problems for example maybe his home environment is abusive, or possibly that was how he was raised...however I can see the potential for violence in your relationship (even though it might have not occured yet) I would sugget you use caution and stay away from him untill all of his issues are resolved because you, him or possibly someone else could get seriously hurt...hope this helps
2007-02-12 20:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN AWAY,or be stupid!!! Your choice. If you respect
yourself other people will respect you too. This guy doesn't
respect you at all,so what have you done that makes him so
sure that you don't really care about yourself so much to the
point that you would let someone treat you like property?
Get some respect for yourself,& get away from this sick
guy with unhealthy control issues!
2007-02-12 20:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, this doesn't sound good at all. Please leave while you can, before you get hurt. He sorts out his trouble (even small stuff like the payphone-thing) by being violent - well, sooner or later his violence will turn to you and hurt you.
By the way, by your question you sound much more mature than him. Find yourself the kind of boyfriend you deserve.
2007-02-12 20:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Amymoni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You outta run like hell young lady. Your boyfriend isn't necessarily tough- he looked bony to me. But he might hurt you if you stick around long enough. Guy who get pissed off over nothing will never amount to crap in life and hopefully, you will get away from him before he hurts you.
2007-02-12 20:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a good idea to get away from this guy,theres nothing you can do for him he has to help himself he is not secure in himself and is afraid of losing,considers everything as belonging to him even you,he has issues that you wont be able to help him with and in time could be detrimental to you or even harmful,we women have a tendency to think we can change or help in some way i think its our nurturing side but it dont work.....good luck and God Bless
2007-02-14 04:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do better than that shi? Don't let no one treat you like that. He no good for you, run and don't look back. you to young to be going threw what you going threw.
2007-02-12 21:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him. Hopefully, he will douse himself in gasoline before he burns himself again. Doing that without gas is sissy stuff.
2007-02-12 20:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get out as soon as u can i would run. i would be scared to be around him talk to him about hes problem and see if he changes if he don't get out
2007-02-12 20:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by loca mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's kinda violent. Be careful, he might make you a punching bag!!!!
2007-02-12 20:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Arianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋