My ex left me and his still unborn baby boy and now he wants to come back, How could I even forgive him for what he did..Should I take him back? I am still in love with him.
2007-02-12 20:09:28 · 10 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, I had asked another question this morning that explains the story..he was never abusive though. I want to think he had cold feet.
2007-02-12 20:16:04 · update #1
We are 23 and been together for 7 years. We were engaged and everything. He left out of state to take another job with his father.
2007-02-12 20:22:10 · update #2
You can love him all you wish,until your face turns blue,
but that won't change anything! Don't trust him to stay
with you girl! If you need to get in shape,& get healthy
he will bring you down. This guy left you alone when you
were pregnant,& there is NO excuse good enough for that
unless he was having major surgery & had to stay in the
hospital a very long time! Prove with a Blood test that it's
his baby & get your child support & find a REAL man,or
you'll be even more depressed next time he leaves you!!!
2007-02-12 20:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to find deep in ur heart to forgive him. i always think of how i wud feel if the person that u cant forgive dies tomorrow....i wud never forgive myself....its hard to forgive and forget but i can assure u wud feel so much better if u get that off ur chest. giving him a second chance is up to u though coz no one really knows what happened between u to. this might sound stupid but i believe in second chances just as God gives us so many chances.
2007-02-13 05:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by tinkabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first why did he leave. second you should really think about taking him back because of your unborn child. or if you dont take him back at least stay in contact so he can know his son and be a father. without more info this is all i got. hope it helps.
2007-02-13 04:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by help me please 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance. Don't know what he did but you say you're still in love with him. You have to ask yourself deep down, what YOU really want. Don't always listen to what others say; you might be sorry.
2007-02-13 04:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take care of his child and see if he does. When he's really interested in making things up, he will do whatever it takes to become a family. But if he doesn't take care of his son and only comes around to see you, he's not worth it. it means he doesn't want a family, he only wants you - but you now come in a package deal. I wish you the best!
2007-02-13 04:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by S T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't exactly a problem others can solve. If he was never abusive and only backed out because of fear and you do love him, I would take him back.
I mean, really consider taking him back. It's not that he left you, it's that he came back.
2007-02-13 04:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sherlock H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it wud be ur loz f u stil take him back.u olready knew that he HAS a still unborn baby.and i tink he doesnt really love you coz if he does then he must not go back to u instead take his responcbity to dat baby.but eventhough a lot of people wud gve der advices,it's still up to you if u wud take their advice or not.
2007-02-13 04:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by 'lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
angela, for whatEVER reason he left you and his unborn baby...can there be a reason?? if you take him back....his behavior will be a constant bad thing between you.i guess you have to make up your own mind about this....but i say let him stay his *** gone. he doesnt deserve you and his baby!
2007-02-13 04:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that u really want,are u better off without him ro do u enjoy yo life more with him dispite what he did.will tell u a lot of staff here but u know whta good cuz u've bn with him & know him better.
2007-02-13 04:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say why he left. how old are the both you? are you prepared to have this child on your own? he will be a part of your life because of this child. don't settle because of the circumstances. you both need to be honest with yourselves and each other. welcome to to real life. good luck.
2007-02-13 04:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋