I kinda like a girl in my school very much.She is beautiful,talanted,intelligent and sensitive.The problem is that I am a little fat and I don't know if a girl like her can ever like a boy like me.What should I do????
2007-02-12 20:00:32 · 8 answers · asked by Dragon Buster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey pal. Listen, it doesnt matter what you look like. A girl will fall in love with the person you are, Not what you look like. I was in the same situation, only in college. I wasnt the greatest looking guy first of all. Here are some things to do: Follow this.
1) Make a move on her to be only her FRIEND, nothing more.
2) Sit next to her and just CHAT about Funny things. If you cant find anything funny, just be Friendly.
3) The way to a girls heart is in fact through happiness.
4) Work out and make your body more attractive. Girls like a guy who works out. Nothin is stoppin you. Buy some dumbells.
5) Do not concentrate on kissing her, concentrate on helping her with homework.
6) Takes time, there is no quick fix, so prepare yourself to take the time to get to know you. A decent girl wont just give it up to a stranger. Work for it.
This will help.
Later
2007-02-12 20:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by stephen b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! don't think it as a big problem. You r title fat--it's doesn't matter because you can make yourself a smart,wel-figured man by some excercise. but the thing is that first u've to build ur personality first. so think about that.
Last thing is that clubs is not possible without two hands so u've to know wheather she loves u or not. Most of all u can get better girl than also who loves u.
Thank u.
Regards:
Debkumar
2007-02-13 04:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Debkumar G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you are having feelings for the girl.The best thing about love is hope....and hope never dies.
Love does'nt alwayz mean that you should be with that girl,it means that she should be happy .....try to communicate but make sure you don't fall for her looks coz wat attracted you to her can be the same applied to you.
Make sure that u throw a smile and greet.....if she is intelligent then boss ...start reading n interacting on a level.
What started as an infactuation can end up being friendship...what better can u ask for !!!
2007-02-13 04:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hyderz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk to her? Or does "kinda like" mean a crush?
If you are friends with her it is possible, despite your looks, she will return your feelings, why, this reminds me of Watson and his late-wife Mary Morsten, on the outside she looked to be a different class, but Watson always could get the women, couldn't he.
2007-02-13 04:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sherlock H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join VLCC and reduced weight. Improve your vocab.
Play game, dress well.
Increase your knowledge on as many topics as possible. Be kind and friendly your freind and teachers.
2007-02-13 04:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by sagarukin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love not arises by seeing the external appearance.
It should arise by viewing your internal character.
The best answer to your question is that
"Don't Love Ever".
2007-02-13 10:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anbarasu M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for now just try to b her good friend then see what she thinks about u......
2007-02-13 04:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by pank_ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u feel inferior about yourself ..it is good u express your love to her come wat may k .. then as u have told about your appetite ..try to reduce it
2007-02-13 04:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋