We were dating for two and 1/2 years but she left me for reasons she can't explain, she still tells me she loves me every day and i still love her. She also says that no matter what we will end up together. She decided shortly after dating me she wanted to date someone else. Its been two months now and they're still together although she admits she enjoyed being with me soo much more. She refuses to leave him and im not sure if i can deal with the pain of waiting and watching her with another guy, should i move on or wait it out? Yes i have approached her with the situation many times, she feels terrible for hurting me but shes too stubborn to end what shes started. She also refuses to take place in acts such as kissing, she says it feels like shes cheating on me. Im not sure if i should stop talking to her and hope she comes back b/c im afraid she wont and i don't want to look back on my life and say i missed out b/c i gave up but also i feel as tho i am waiting for nothing.
2007-02-12 19:56:01 · 23 answers · asked by Ajackattack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she loves u like she says she does then she will leave the other guy...why wud she be in a relationship when she loves sumone else? i think she is confused. set her free and if she comes back u know its for real. u r just getting hurt in the process and its not doing u any gud. if u want to stay in contact then do but dont show ur feelings....it will be even more confusing for both of u. i think if she doesnt know how u feel anymore she wud realize what she is missing and make up her mind what she wants.
2007-02-12 20:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor u. She's leading u on. FYI, no such thing as loving one guy & dating another one. She just want to fall back on her safety net if her other relationship fails. Dun be so stupid, and hope she return back to you.
U dun have to approached her anymore, just give her the ultimate choice. Do not let her play you anymore. Wake up. I know, deep inside your heart, you already got the answer, just that you are not willing to accept the choice.
If a gf dun even like to be kiss, then it's another alert for you. Hope you are not thinking i want you to breakoff, but i've been in this kind of situation b4, and i'm 98% sure that she's playing with you and take you as her safety net to fall back whenever she's hurt.
2007-02-12 20:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump her immediately. You are at best her rebound guy, but more likely, her perpetual friend. Of course this means you are the kind of friend that helps her out when she is in a bind and other than that never hear from her. I have been through this, but wised up within a month or so. I have friends that have been falling for this kind of crap for years (some with the same "friend"). Either way, you would be better off remaining her friend but seeing other people.
And if you believe she isn't kissing him AND sleeping with him, you might deserve what she is doing to you. But you should know that she has no intention of going out with you and you are simply wasting your time and looking like a complete fool.
How about a best answer?!
2007-02-12 20:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read yo question half way cuz i know what u need to also know, she's the kind of gal who believes that there's a nice way of breaking up with someone,by tellin u all the staff about lovin u still,not wanting to hurt u is just being polite,she's over u,So do the same,
I bet u were not born to wait for others.
2007-02-12 20:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey friend don't be low hearted .she is cheating on you once if she leaves you and go the is no chance to come back first of all true love is completely showering all their love to the loved ones .i feel she is completely cheater going around with another guy first of all forget her and avoid her.since you are a good guy don't worry wait for the correct time and you will find some one true .the only person who can share true love with you and does not think about another guy or flirt would be the right one don't be lose hearted pray god and avoid this girl good luck
2007-02-12 20:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by %0oi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess you need to ask yourself why can not show him physical emotions? It is normally what two people do when they really care . Are you afraid that he might bail on you once you do or are you just not ready for that yet? If it is the first then wait and if it is the second then tell him but if he wants to end it because there is no sex then he is not worth it anyway . That is not love , it is lust and that never lasts.
2016-05-24 04:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking and telling her straight up how you feel like you did here, will answer your question on waiting or moving on.
If she loves you though, she should leave him right now.
Tell her what you think about this and give her a little fear that you won't like her anymore if she keeps on doing this.
Then she'll definitely reconsider what she's doing. That's the number one anxiety in a girl. Fear of a guy leaving her.
g'luck!
2007-02-12 20:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesnt want to hurt you but she is stringing you along- not fair to you , as you cant move forward. If she wanted to be with you she would be with you! Move on before you get hurt more. She is a coward for not telling you her true feelings, and probably feels like she has you to fall back on if this relationship doesnt work out,not fair to you at all, if she cared about you she would let you move on!
2007-02-12 20:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by seven-11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away for God's sake....from the way you're writing i know that you know this is the right decision but you need someone to encourage you.
in what universe can you love someone but be too stubborn to want to be with them and instead be with someone else.
that's not love!
move on, she's taking you for granted "we will end up together no matter what" sounds like "i know you'll be there no matter what i do" in her case.
2007-02-12 20:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by fate_n83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro leave that gal right now,tell me why she is with him if she loves u and if she says she is going to end up with u she might aswell be with u now,she is just occupying space in ur life for nothing,get someone who will want u now and tomorow not that stubboorn thing, she wants to use u as a rebound cant u see,,tell her that she must decide now its either u or him and period coz u got to move on buddy..no more games hheeiii!!
GOODLUCK
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2007-02-12 20:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋