Him not being here didnt really start to bother me untill I started getting closer to my due date. I realized it's his choice but it still hurts. He was around in the 1st few months but got scared HELLO it's not like im not. I just really feel for my unborn son. I can't complane to much I have more love around me then any person can ask for, (thank GOD 4 family) it would be just be nice if he would grow up. I don't think I'll ever forgive him.
2007-02-12 19:02:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Beyond getting financial support for your child, forget about him. A man who would abandon the woman who is carrying his child isn't worth a thing.
2007-02-12 19:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stylish. besides, no do not supply the youngster his very last call because it's going to complicate issues in a while. in case you do get lower back at the same time and get married then you could replace the childs very last call to his. yet in my opinion i won't be able to trust everybody would opt for this guy, a lot less have 2 individual women combating over him and jealous of one yet another. I advise fairly, he's a felon, he's been jobless for 4 years and he for sure has no loyalty or respect for you or your unborn son. Its no longer about the different lady. If he wanted to be with you he will be with you. he's making up excuses. sure, i'm efficient she's tricky to regulate yet that is about you, your son and your sons dad, no longer her. i'd purely pass on. Do the only mom element, locate him a clean dad, undertake out. in spite of what you opt for some thing is more beneficial efficient than having the lifeless weight of this jerk round putting round you. to boot, a father must be a position type, no longer a loser like this fool.
2016-11-27 19:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughters dad freaked out and ran when I was 2 months pregnant. The thing is, I would rather selfishly have her to myself, then go through the heart break of sharing her. I mean if he is that kind of guy, it probably wouldnt' have worked out anyway.. and so it is better that I have her all to myself. i coudn't imagine havign to pack her off for weekends and summers... ouch. I acutally quite enjoyed being a single mom. I heard all these victim stories about how hard it is. It really is not that bad. As for forgivness. It will come, don't try to hard... when you are ready, it will vcome
2007-02-12 20:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a baby to care for now. Let's not use the baby as an excuse to try to get him back. If he wants to go, let him. It will only hurt the baby in the long run.
2007-02-12 21:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by honeyxmust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a shame a lot of "boys" do this. they get scared & run. i'm sure the mothers get scared too, but it's not like they can run. it doesn't help when the father goes awol. if he comes back he better treat u like the queen that u r, anything failing that, send his *** packin'.
2007-02-12 19:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by DoMeStIc GoDdEsS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋