2007-02-12 18:45:36 · 11 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And please give details/explanation/reasons with your answer...
2007-02-12 18:47:40 · update #1
I'm talking seemingly purely sexual relationship that suddenly turned to be not so physical after all!
2007-02-12 18:50:26 · update #2
I mean, there are so many popular books out there in which they say to women "oh no, don't sleep with him on the first date, he will see you as a slut and he will never take you seriously" hence, that is why I asked the question.
2007-02-12 18:55:44 · update #3
It depends. My guess is that you are thinking of a **** buddy or a friends with benefits scenario. Now if both parties know the relationship is just fo rsex then for emotions to enter into it (and horror of horros...expectations and attachments) is something that can complicate things. I aint saying its a no no or is a bad thing but it is certainly something both parties need to sit down, talk it over and sort it out. Basically, women are generally held incapable of having sex without some basic emotion involved in it (yeah we did get the crappy side of nature in that way) ....so it is NOT all that rare for a sexual relationship to turn serious ...however, whether it actually fizzles or sizzles after wards...is anyone's guess.
You wont know till you venture into that territory and find out for yourself.
A former player...now signing out;)
2007-02-12 18:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Syn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Psychologically speaking, women tend to fall for guys and THEN have sex with them...so they are already serious to some degree. Men, however, usually fall for a girl AFTER sex and then get serious. So it can definitely happen, and actually is not rare at all. This is not always the case obviously, but many researchers have studied sexual relationships and correlation to the love factor, and this is usually how it ends up from a psychological perspective.
2007-02-12 18:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen, rare is probably the word though. My boyfriend and I went through a bad patch a few months into relationship and continued to see each other as friends and remained physical however, I found that wasn't working for me (thought I cared more for him than he did me) but yeah just as I was ready to end things, things worked themselves out and back to how things used to be, boyfriend, girlfriend, blah blah lol.
2007-02-12 22:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by OziGirl_222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try to understand human sexual behaviour, and how it has changed down the ages. People did not always have sex so early years ago, as you probably know. The main reasons for this was that there was no guaranteed birth-control methods, so girls easily got pregnant - so this was a sort of self-control reason for not giving way to sex (they were scared of getting pregnant). The other main reason was this modern female lib - ie the female sex is much freer to do what they want now, because so many of them are independent. This was not so years ago, many women then relied on men to keep them in various forms. ......................................... But the real and root reason (and answer to your quesion) still remains a biological one. Nature obviously intended the male and female sex to get it together at their most healthiest, productive age - (the procreation of the species - one of the strongest urges in life). Your group is at this age. In other simpler words, you were built, designed, hard-wired to get preggy around your age - a better chance of a healthier baby. Young people are like puppets, dancing to the tunes of the call of nature-the puppet controller. So it could be argued they are only doing what comes naturally. The only reason it is discouraged is, the world is already overpopulated, and who is gonna pay for all these babies to young `kids`? People ostensibly want sex for selfish reasons (physical satisfaction) , but the truth is, nature is driving them, cos nature`s reason is producing offspring. Sorry for making it sound so long and complicated, so I hope you understand my point?
2016-03-29 04:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases it could be consieved that way. But if its a mutal sex relationship and both parties have the same understanding.Then i don't see how it couldn't evolve.If you share a bed with some one, its proably next thing to happen.my opinoin.
2007-02-12 18:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by pvy_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that that's fairly rare but it always depends on the people involved.
to make it serious you would have to find out if he's into you emotionally as well. suggest going out more instead of staying in and see what happens...
2007-02-12 18:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by missy_thang1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what do YOU consider rare ? How many people are in the world ? We are all different, therefore sometimes it will happen and sometimes it won't.
2007-02-12 18:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by WOLFMAN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rare?That's how most relationships start.
2007-02-12 18:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT happens all the time. THATS how my sister + her husban met. NOW they r married.
2007-02-12 18:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens way more often than you think.
2007-02-12 20:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋