I am 1 of the people that is involve in a long distance-online relationship. I thought I will not be attached to this guy. I think I am getting much involved more than I want to. I am now feeling miserable. I don’t know if he is true, though I am hoping he is. It is now 2 years of exchanging emails, phoned me for special occasion, and chatting. We talked about visiting my country, though there is no specific plan because of his work and some financial issues. I have become more attached with him than I could imagine. Before he use to have lots of time for me from his last work, but now his schedule become more hectic with his recent work. He has lesser time for mw now. I am trying to understand the situation but recently he gave some irrational excuses like he cant meet me to our scheduled chat because he has a hangover even though he is the one who set that date. Is it time for me to leave him? I am still hoping for our relationship to beokay but I don’t want to become a martyr.
2007-02-12 18:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because he has a hangover?? That's harsh. I would be mad. This guy sounded real and sincere up until I read that. But then again, I don't know him at all and you know him well. I don't believe you should meet him just yet but I think you should give it a little more time... every relationship has problems and complications - longdistance and online or not. I had a online, sorta long distance relationship with a guy for a year and we stopped talking for about 2 years and now I've been with him, every day.. in real life..in person.. not over phone, email, etc.. and it's been great. My advice is to give it a little more time.. HOWEVER, tell him he needs better excuses because I wouldn't fall for those for much longer. Peace!
2007-02-12 18:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you, since this is a very personal decisions and you should consider YOUR feelings and the circumstances in YOUR life. Do not let your boyfriend persuade you do anything you don't want to do, as this is something you may end up regretting if you are forced or coerced to do. Contact Planned Parenthood or any other organizations that you think might be able to advise you. Contrary to popular belief, Planned Parenthood will NOT advise you to get an abortion. They can direct you to the right place. Now, if I may, I can offer you advice from my perspective. Take it with a grain of salt, of course, since I've never been pregnant. I myself could never bear to give my child away. I am also 21 years old, and I am old enough to get a job, an apartment, a car, etc. Therefore, I think I would much rather endure some difficulties, and even if my life didn't turn out as I had planned before the baby, I would still have my child. Now, you have to decide whether YOU want to take care of this baby, and whether YOU think you can do so (hint: I think you can, there are plenty of single mothers out there who raise beautiful children). Good luck with everything, I wish you the best.
2016-05-24 04:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationship is really hard. you could at least give one more shot. say stay for another week or two. if you feel that you are loosing him, like there is no more connection coming from him, dont waste your time... move on...
2007-02-12 18:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this I would suggest you limit yourself from chatting with him go out with the girls have some fun.
2007-02-12 18:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by California<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good. Really not a relationship to speak of. God bless you and I hope someone finds you. It shouldn't happen on the computer. God bless.
2007-02-12 18:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u r asking then not 2 continue sorry but u shouldn't have to ask on here...
2007-02-12 18:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has fear of commitment.
dump his sorry ***!
dont' waste anymore virtal time on him.!!!
good luck!
2007-02-12 18:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋