Ok...I was in love wid a guy....i really loved him & still do..but he always ignored me & hated me ..i cried for 10 months...later i met a crush of mine..i had a crush on him since 2 years....i was thinking of having a relation wid him.......
The other part of the story : My frend (a boy) was in love wid my best frend..She said she just wanted to be frends & dat she loved sum1 else. I and that boy have become good frends now. Dat gurl feels jealous wen i and dat boy are together...He was the only one who gave me the attention and care i needed. But now dat gurl says she loves him too...And i've been so depressed after hearing that........
Now wat i wanna ask u guys is .....What shud i do ?? Be happy for dat gurl and boy or be sad for myself that its only me who has not got the person i love...
Secondly......wud trying to have a relation with my 2 yr old crush be fine ???
Plzz no lewd comments..i knw i'm a freak but dats wat i cant control....plzzz suggest how to make my life better !!
2007-02-12 18:38:02 · 3 answers · asked by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh well, first of all about that girl friend of yours. ask her straight up why she finally has interest in your boy pal. whether she really likes him or is just jealous you're getting all the attention from him as a friend. if she is just envious then tell her to get lost, cos you don't want your friend to get hurt twice. and ask yourself if you really consider this guy as 'just a friend' cos you shouldn't be depressed if your friend finally gets the love he was asking for. unless your feelings have changed to more than just buddies.
about your 2 year crush. He is 'your' crush, right? Not the other way around. So try taking it slow, and keep an eye on the signs, whether he has the same feelings for you or not. You don't want to humiliate yourself in confessing when he doesn't even have a clue.
Oh yeah, keep trying on winning his heart. But not in a creepy, freaky, stalker way. Lay low, girl. Guys like the hunt. But hunters like to be lured by their prey too.
2007-02-12 18:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and evaluate if this guy is worth your friendship with this gurl. but also try to maybe take some time off from guys cause you sound really sweet and no one deserves to be depressed over messed up relationships. take some time and the right guy will come to you...not the other way around.
i got this advice a few years back from a friend of mine and it helped me out
2007-02-12 18:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by missy_thang1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me i wud start off by telling da guy i like him and then if he was smart he would ignore the girl becuz she did not like him before....good luck!
2007-02-12 18:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋