I've been going out with this guy every single day since last 2 wks. I started to like him a lot. Lets juz say that i have a HUGE crush on him. As and wen he thought that he hurt my feelings, he would apologise and if he calls me up but i was bz and did not answer the phone, he woud sms me telling me that he would take 1/2 day at work and would come down to my place to see me. He too got alot of girl friends. But he spend alot of his time on me. He never told me that he likes me or what so ever. Sometimes, i felt a little jealous when his other girl friend calls or sms him. Whenever he received a call from them wen i'm ard, he would simply reject the call or juz say that he's out with a girl friend. He checks on my msgs every now and then to see if other of my guy friend msg me. And if he comes across any, he would ask me about them. Do you think he have a crush on me too?? I'm to shy to tell him that i have a crush on him. What should i do??
2007-02-12 18:30:33 · 11 answers · asked by Lilia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him and ask him....i think he does cuz he's REALLY OVER protective..
2007-02-12 18:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jani N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually don't put that much time and energy into anyone or question you about your relationship with other guys UNLESS there interested in you. I'm not sure how relationship ready he is with you. Perhaps he just wants to get a feel of how honest you are first and if you seem the type he'd like to date. But if you really want to know you should give him signs your into him more then just a friend, because without it he may think that's all you ever really want to be. And by signs I don't mean the "I hope he can read my mind" type. Be clear and ask if your his best friend or if he thinks there could possibly be more and would like to take it a step further. Sure it may seem scary at first but that's the only way you'll get a real answer and find out where you really stand. That way you'll know if you should move on and invest your time on someone who cares just as much instead of playing the waiting game for something that isn't ever going to happen
2007-02-12 18:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by canadian_chick0678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel confident enough, you could do the first move. on my end, its like he have some sort of feelings for you too. but be careful. when you two are alone, find a perfect timing to ask about how he feels about you or not to be too obvious, ask him why does he check you sms or why would take 1/2 day at work just to see you etc... from this, it would push him to at least reveal a bit his feelings... good luck...
2007-02-12 18:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
greetings...so you've been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and your not sure if he likes you? you say he has alot of other girl friends and you are supposed to be okay with that, right? but he's questioning you having guy friends that call you? huh..interesting..may i suggest putting his feet to the fire and express your feelings to him. have you been intimate with him? the reason i ask is sometimes giving yourself to someone who's on the fence about things can tip the scales in there favor. if you haven't been romantically involved with him, that allows you to keep your edge. this way he gets nothing until his true feelings about you are revealed. although if your interest in him is simply a physical one, once again, express your feelings to him and hear what he's got to say. good luck
2007-02-12 18:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe he have a crush on you but at the same time he also don't show his trust in you by checking your msg. If he really love you, he must respect you and also allow you to have your own space
2007-02-12 22:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you guys have been hanging out for a while now and you like him. stick with him...give him compliments and ask him questions...if he does the same back to you then you might feel more confident and tell him how you feel.
or he might beat you to it. Seems to me that he likes you. :-)
2007-02-12 18:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by missy_thang1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has a crush on u. Tell him since u like him too, otherwise other girls might get it...first come first served.
2007-02-12 18:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you if he has other GF's tell him when he is single then you will go out with him, till then don't waste his time.
2007-02-12 18:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's crazy for you. Use Valentines Day as an opportunity.
2007-02-12 18:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-12 18:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you and is trying you out. Just tell him you like him and kiss him.
2007-02-12 18:34:55 · answer #11 · answered by tevias2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋