we have gone out for a couple of dates.and all this time we had a blast.she felt the same way as i did but on the last date she said she views me more as a pal than a potential boyfriend.whats going on with that?what changed her mind?
2007-02-12 18:28:15 · 9 answers · asked by peter m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares what changed her mind, once she'd made it up your chances are nil. If you've got feelings for her then GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE as fast as your legs can carry you or you are setting yourself up for a world of heartbreak. Don't fool yourself that it's going to work out with her. Find yourself another girl and don't look back.
2007-02-13 00:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is start chasing another gal. Because if it's not in the cards in the first few dates, I don't see it happening. It's just a matter of chemistry.
2007-02-12 18:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she's changed her mind or found someone else. she's used a very old and lame excuse.i'd say its time for you to move.check out the 9 signs that she's not into you on the recommended link
2007-02-12 18:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by therna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she did not change her mind at all...ur the one thinking she treated u as a bf bt cld be she only treats u like a pal all along? did u ask her upfront? did u tell her u like her? too many unanswered questions.
2007-02-12 18:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really just wants to be friends, then leave it as that. If you keep pushing for more, you're just going to drive her away and she won't even want friendship from you.
If you're feelings won't allow you to do this, then you need to be honest and spill it to her, tell her you can't see her anymore and tell her that you can't be friends when you feel more than that. Lying to her would not be right, nor would it be fair to you. As important as it is to be honest with her, it's more important that you are honest with yourself.
2007-02-12 18:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's looking for something that she does'nt see in you,or does'nt expect to find in you.
It's sad and hurtful, and the best you can do for yourself is accept it as her call and be her friend. Keep looking for the Gf you want,tho.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 18:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Croa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling.... once u stop calling/talking/communicating with her she'll miss u, then she'll call u and then u 2 will go out and on that date u MuSt KiSs her and then hopefully it will all work out.... that is when she'll be craving you, otherwise forget it and you won't have a chance.
2007-02-12 18:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by optimistic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man it happens. Tell her how you feel and see what she says. Maybe you two are better off as friends.
2007-02-12 18:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by BJackson07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur not the 'boyfriend type' maye ur not the romantic type. just the fun, friendly type of guy.
2007-02-12 18:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jani N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋