How important do women consider money REALLY, when they choose a man?!?

Question

Women over the age of 20 perferred to answer this one, but anybody can - if you include your age in your answer it may provide an interesting comparison.

Answer 1

To me money is not a consideration. I wouldn't want to date a bum who didn't work, but the amount of money that he makes isn't a big deal.

My first husband was in the military when I got married at 17. Tell me that's going to make us rich.

I got divorced 21 years later and got married again at 40. My husband now works for the city as a street sweeper. Do you think we're getting rich off that? I don't think so.

He makes a decent wage and we are doing ok. I wish I had met some millionaire, but no such luck. Lots of people with lots of money really aren't that happy.

I think love is more important and I'm happy as long as we can pay our bills. I've never been a gold digger. I really believe most women who marry for money end up pretty miserable when they realize that money doesn't equal love.

Answer 2

Ted, Well you have put a smile on my face, all I need is to know that you care and to have hot YA love. I think that we should share each other, I mean could you imagine the other night without Browneyez! I would never want you to feel trapped and I am not the jealous type, did you think that I would force you into making a choice between us? We can have whatever arrangement is best for you as long as we both have the same options... another words it is all good if we all get some! We don't want the hassle of fights and jealously, lets always have the option of a third, fourth, fifth... you get the point... share and share alike. How does an open relationship sound? Think "Big Love" without the kids! My preference would be to be the first wife though, I don't know if I could handle PJ being the decision maker.... I do think that we should take a trip together though and celebrate that we have made the relationship public, have you been to Rome. Ohh and I don't like for everyone to know this, but you really don't have to worry about money with me either... I make great money and have some sick relatives that should be kicking the bucket any day now and since I am the favorite should get a hefty inheritance! Not the amount that PJ has, but we won't be sharing a shack! Edit: Of course NASB is included, but you must know that Hattie is teaching me new tricks and I do like her rough love!! I think we should leave options open for new additions as well!

Answer 3

In my opinion, it's not how MUCH money a guy has, just as long as he has SOME money... in most cases.

I think the major thing women need is security (financially or physically), not necessarily dollars, which can sometimes seem like the same thing from a man's point of view. Money (doesn't have to be oodles) offers security, among other things.

Think about it. A career woman, independent and successful, likely won't chase the closest rich guy for his money--she has security because she can provide for herself (unless she wants to drop it all and not have to worry).... I think a big reason she may chase the next rich guy is because he's proven that he is as ambitious and as driven as she is!

There are many shallow/insecure women out there who seem to 'need' things that money can buy... this probably offers one form of security and might do something to help a lack of self-confidence (or at least cover it up). Other women want these things in order to project an image of security, financially or otherwise.

If a man is good at making a woman feel beautiful, happy, safe, and self-confident, then money probably ranks pretty low on the scale of importance.

If it makes a difference, I'm 23.

Answer 4

That all depends on the woman. I know some girls that refuse to work, live off their parents' money, and their only goal in life is to marry a wealthy man (I live in Orange County, CA - there's a lot of this type of girl around here). On the other hand, there are girls (like me) who work for their money and seek to achieve financial independence without the help of a man. I'm not going to lie, a second income is better than one in order to feel secure but to me, as long as both people enjoy their jobs, and enjoy their lives then it really doesn't matter. My fiance is a fisherman and doesn't make that much, but I don't care because he loves his job which makes me happy. Women these days should stop being so dependent on their "fantasy life" and should learn to support themselves.

Answer 5

I'm 32 and married with 2 kids. Money is an important factor in choosing a man because it determines the kind of life he can provide for a family should things get serious between you. It doesn't make you materialistic to consider his financial stability and capability. Love is important too but you and your kids/family need money to survive.=) I hope my answer helps.=)

Answer 6

I think it’s more of a stability issues for women. More money usually indicates establishment, therefore a more financial secure life. I’m 20 years old. If I were to look for a boyfriend right now I would prefer someone who came from similar family background as me.

Answer 7

In a man, of course he must have an average income that means a stable job. I guess it is also depend where you live. Where I live, the average income is 80K. Because average houses cost around 700K.
Income is confidence feeing that I have in him if the relationship goes future! Beside that, he must be a family guy who once awhile likes to have fun. Kind and honest is the best key to a woman heart!
I am 23....
MONEY CAN'T BUY HAPPINESS BUT...MONEY BRINGS A LOT OF HAPPINESS!

Answer 8

In my 41 years on this earth I found that most women put money before anything else.There are exceptions,but few & far between.To be fair,most people are materialistic today.

Answer 9

important. though somebody said love is all you need, in reality, couples also need money. that's because we think of the future, for the family, especially our children.

17

Answer 10

I just want a man who can support himself .I'll take care of me and my financial needs. I'm 31