well im 16 years old and im a male...well i respected girls like mygirlfriends...but they didnt respect me back ONE EVEN CHEATED ON ME!!. they say im cute and all but what the helll...i really dont know if ima find the right one...im still a virgin too and im happy for that...valentines is coming up and im the only one without a girlfriend...guess ima just go play some games...or go out bymyself in valentines....what do u guysa suggest i should do....
P.S:im not depressed im just shocked
2007-02-12 18:24:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah i accept IM....well im bored >.<
2007-02-12 18:33:10 · update #1
save ur virginity...the right one will come along and all this waiting will be worth it
2007-02-12 18:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Susie K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not the only 16 year-old guy who is a virgin. In fact, I would guess at least 50% of your peers are as well - though that number will drop drastically over the next 2 years.
Second, you are not the only one who does not have a girlfriend for valentines day. In fact, you are probably a part of the majority and don't realize it.
Third, if you keep winding up with girls who cheat on you, maybe you need to re-evaluate the type of girl you go out with. There are plenty of girls who would be happy to have a nice guy and who would never even consider cheating on you. One of the things that tends to happen in high school is people get into these cliques and don't socialize with people outside these groups. As a result they miss out on a lot of good people.
Be patient and you will eventually meet a nice girl. Just don't change yourself to be more like what the tramps and cheaters like.
2007-02-12 18:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is some advice for you to completely and utterly ignore: You are only 16 so don't feel like you have to worry about finding "the right one." You and all the girls your age will change (in mind and personality) a TON during the next 5 to 10 years so finding "the one" now might turn out to be not so great when you and she both undergo a lot of growth and change. Relax, have some fun.
2007-02-12 18:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by DiggyK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you're a good guy. Girls won't appreciate it now, but when you're older, women will appreciate it.
Going out with girls that are cheating on you? Sounds like superficial girls to me. They sound like selfish girls with no moral. Stay away from those kind of girls, they're beautiful, exciting and fun in the beginning but they end up stupid and boring at the end.
Get yourself a good sweet girl with character and good morals. It'll save you a lot of trouble and hearteache.
As for Valentine's Day. What you do is up to you. If you think this holiday is meaningful to you, ask a nice girl out to be your valentine for that night. If you can't find a date, then get some of your friends to go out with you so you don't have to think about the holiday.
Otherwise, just treat it like any other day, then it won't phase you.
Good luck.
2007-02-12 19:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the freedom that you possess this Valentine's Day. One where there is no pressure to please a girl, buy the perfect gift or disappoint anyone if it isn't just right. And who knows while your out and about hanging out with your friends a girl might just happen by while love is in the air and catch your eye. Don't worry if it doesn't though. valentine's Day has gotten waaaaay to commercialized and real love and happiness usually hits you when you least expect it, not just on some day dedicated to a Saint that everyone tells you to fall in love.
2007-02-12 18:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by canadian_chick0678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you dear but you shouldn`t be shocked because i`ve gone through difficult times too and i`m not celebrating valentine too this year....i`m waiting for my charming prince....
I know it hurts and it`s stunning to be treated as such when you are sincere, transparent and faithful....
I suggest you to be patient, forgive those that mistreated you, please don`t harden your heart and don`t change from a good into a bad guy but be wise discern a person`s true intentions......
and one thing i`m sure of is if you are not with these girls is that they don`t deserve someone as special as you.....
Believe and wait, be patient....a lack of patience may result in a broken heart and i`m certain you don`t want to be in such a situation....., and please do not be sad on the fact that you are the only one who doesnot have a girlfriend because you are hurting yourself......
I`m sure when the time comes with patience and belief ,you will have the right person...your princess,and the joy you will have when you are with her will be too great to be compared to the time you`ve waited for her alone on valentine`s day....
and that special someone will treasure and complement you dear......
and meanwhile get busy with activities, get involved in things you like (leisure activities)....you will feel better dear... go on... enjoy life waiting for your princess...
2007-02-12 18:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 07:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks,man! Nice guys do get treated like dirt a lot. Those girls just don't realize what they had, an older girl (22) like me knows that nice guys are hard to find when most males just want sex. That is something that will probably never get explained, why females say they want respect, but then treat guys like you who are nice like crap.
But, fortunately, most girls will mature enough soon enough that they will hopefully see what a catch you are.
2007-02-12 18:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if like watever u said, u r a nice girl and respect girls, then u dont have anything wrong. u r nice and good and ur ex-gf doesnt deserve wat u have done for her.
nice person always fits same one. so dont worry, u r still young, and have huge chances to meet nice girls
on valentines day, just go for some party, maybe u will meet a nice single girl..
best of luck.
2007-02-12 18:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
high school dating is overly dramatic. girls might not realize what a good catch you are now but they will, just give it time.
valentine's day is only one day out of the whole year and this year u might not have the best one but you will get your fair share
2007-02-12 18:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by missy_thang1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋