I know I'm going to take a lot of heat for this one... No I'm not trying to promote sex crimes, nor am I a pervert...Its just that I heard most women do.... If this is true WHY!? Let me aso clarify this a fantasy about someone who is or will become their partner/lover, not a complete stranger.....
2007-02-12 18:17:27 · 29 answers · asked by michael H 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think there are a lot of women who have been raised to think that they are "bad" if they enjoy sex or want a lot of it. So being "overcome" by a man, they can pretend they are helpless to avoid sex so they are freer to enjoy it, and less inhibited. There are other women who are raised in abusive homes who can only find satisfaction by reliving the abuse. It's the only way they've ever known a sexual experience, so they seek out men who will abuse them. Some women just find it exciting to try something different and wild. Some men have those fantasies, too. In submission there is a certain freedom, I think, at least in the minds of some people. It can't really be called rape in that way, because the individual is choosing to experience it. There is nothing going on against someone's choice or will. There is probably a small contingent of women who would deliberately push a guy into forcing sex on them, but I have not heard or read or known very many women like that.
Like someone else has said, real rape is not about the sex. Rape fantasy is about the sex. It's a domination/submission game the heightens the emotional aspects of sex for some people.
2007-02-12 18:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rape fantasies are traditional, for guys and ladies each. Like you stated, the defining aspect for me as good is the truth it isn't truthfully truly. Even men and women who're staging rapes are nonetheless doing it with manage over the 'laws' of it. It's no longer the equal in any respect as precise rape. I've met plenty of men and women with rape fantasies, a few have lived them out in 'severe' approaches, or performed reenactments to get them by way of the trauma of a truly rape, and none have *ever* stated they wish to be real raped. The ones who were raped stated it is a terrible enjoy as good, so they are no longer reenacting it on the grounds that it was once special, they do it to react the best way they want they'd whilst it occurred for truly. We're plenty extra open sexually than we was. The web's superb for this truthfully given that it will probably deliver in combination men and women with an identical disorders/issues/pursuits and exhibit you that you are no longer unusual for what you revel in. Especially given that many men and women could in no way say the phrases to someone of their truly lives =o) Rape fantasies and precise rape are worlds aside, the consent separates them for definite.
2016-09-05 07:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me assure you most women do not fantasise about being brutally attacked by some stinky bad breathed animal.
Your talking about lovers being forceful not strangers brutalising you.
Most women and young ladies are afraid of being raped they don't day dream about it.There is nothing enjoyable about rape.
Would you or your friends fantasise about being bent over and raped?Didn't think so, Stop being insensitive and silly
Rape is never a pleasure for the victim
2007-02-12 21:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a question with many different sides. if this person is or will become their lover and they want it, then it is not rape. i know some women do think it would be exciting and different, but also it depends on the situation if this person is going to be "nice" or not and if the person is a well known person. you cant really get a straight forward answer with this because there are different fantasies for differt people and it just depends on what your defintion or rape is.
2007-02-12 18:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by pirate_obsessive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... no. Some women fantasize about being "dominated" and "abused" but I'm going to assume they are willing to let that happen. Rape, on the other hand, is forced against their will. I don't see anyone "fantasizing" about that kind of situation, and if they did it would be called a nightmare.
2007-02-12 18:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mystery_Woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard any woman I dated or lived with or married, say they did, I remember my first wife and I got carried away one time she didn't really want to and I did persuade her to and she cried afterward, I was puzzled because I didn't force her or use any force at all but she said she didn't want to and felt she was raped,,,,,,,, I felt so bad after that I never made the first move again,,,, still we lasted 20 years,,,, but I guess that some may, Hummm I'll ask my next Ex girlfriend,
2007-02-12 18:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by S h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what most women do find seductive and alluring is the man knowing how to please her and taking that control into his own hands. Not having to be the one to call the shots or having those awkward moments with an insecure lover, but to be totally into, seduced by and dominated-without getting hurt emotionally or physically-by a man.
2007-02-12 18:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by canadian_chick0678 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah some women might but i had 2 lady friends who got raped and both of them are still paying for it mentally .Its nothing to play with but some women actually role play like that.
2007-02-12 18:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by cameron_finke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fantasied about it before but when I asked my boyfriend to do it he was uncomfortable with it. He held me down and wouldn't let me move but refused to call me a ***** or any other names. During it I didn't really like it and asked him to stop. I don't know why I fantasied about it to be honest. Maybe because I wanted to be completely submissive.
2007-02-12 18:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have thought so, but I had a girlfriend once, who liked me to tie her up and have sex (it's not making love) with her, as it's a very submissive thing to do to allow it to happen. to be raped is to be, usually, brutally and with no feeling forcibly penetrated. by a complete stranger how can anyone like this?
2007-02-12 18:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋