I just broke up with my gf of 4years and i need to get back in the field. I dont have lots of experiance meeting girls and i could really use some help. I'm not the type that can just go up to a girl, i need some expert advise.
2007-02-12 18:04:09 · 12 answers · asked by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can say im tall n good looking, so it would be such a problem right?
2007-02-12 18:04:55 · update #1
I went through the same thing. You have to be patient and most importantly not desperate. It is more attractive to see someone having a good time than someone trying to pick up. After 6 years in a relationship, I wasn't looking. I was just single and free! The radiance and the energy I gave off attracted more people than I could handle. The guy I fell for, called it a "race" and says that he won the race. 18 months later we are still very happy. Just don't try too hard to find it and it will come to you. Wait til someone really catches your eye. Plenty of singles hit the clubs if thats your scene. Avoid alcohol, it will affect your judgement, you will only end up with regrets, lol. Sporting events are always good or the beach. Whatever your interests are, go there or do it and you will be more likely to find someone with similar interests... instant attraction!
2007-02-12 18:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by missdre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a suggestion that worked for my husband ( before he met me). You have more opportunities than you can count. In your daily routine....make it a point to talk ( even casually) to at least 10 ladies a day. You will get a good response from most of them...at least one of them a day will offer up a phone number or email address.
Do you belong to a gym, club or anything like that...if the answer is yes...alternate the times you go in. You may indeed find yourself looking at someone you like. As long as you are confident...respectable and less than desperate...you will meet someone.
Keep in mind, you said You JUST broke up with your girlfriend of 4 years....don't rush into a new relationship...take your time.
2007-02-12 18:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships begin with yourself. Learn to love and accept yourself, to like yourself and trust yourself, without judgment. If you can truly love yourself and feel comfortable with yourself, then you will have no trouble finding others who will like you. You can tell a lot about what a person thinks of himself by looking at his friends. You want to be the kind of person you would like to have as a friend. If you can be this person, which means really liking yourself, you will have no trouble attracting girls. And, you will find that you will choose a girl who will honor you as you honor yourself. When do you meet them...don't worry, they're out there and will come around. Good luck.
2007-02-12 18:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're tall and good looking (and shy)
The ladies will soon come looking for you.
Once the word is out that you're available
If you want to spped up the process you'll have to talk first.
Sometimes friends know of others that would be interested in a blind date but you should really pickout your own g/f and get what you want
2007-02-12 18:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if they're not interested most women will be kind and friendly. If they are int rested they'll let you know that too. So 9 times out of 10 you won't have anything to loose. You have to talk to people to get to know them. Start by talking to girls you're not int rested in that way there won't be any pressure, work your way up to girls you like.
2007-02-12 18:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jay K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get with a group of friends and start going out. Its easier to meet women when your out with mixed company. Maybe one of your friends could set you up with someone decent. I find it easier to talk to women when Im out with a group of men and women. I feel the same way as you do, I feel kind of weird just going up and talking to women Ive never seen before. Ive found that going out with friends helps because when you go to clubs and things, the people you go with tend to know people and things can happen from there. Its hard to explain in writing, but I hope it helps. Good luck!
2007-02-12 18:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by BJackson07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its going to be hard but seriously take it easy, make sure your not jumping in to quickly but in my opinion if you are ready to date again go for it. Whats the worst that could happen? get regected...boohoo. if you like a girl, take the chance...don't get to worked up about it.
another thought don't use corny pick-up lines,...such a turn-off.
Find someone you have something in common with. sports, music,hobbies...whatever. that way it will be less nerve racking to go up and talk to her.
2007-02-12 18:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by missy_thang1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go someplace where you will meet your kind of girl cause how can 2 walk together unless they agree. Perhaps go to a community college.
2007-02-12 18:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become a salesman in a womens under garment department.
Just after one month you will be surprised the conversations that you and the opposite sex will have.. and you will be just rolling it off your tongue..
Happy Motoring..
2007-02-12 18:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Angus. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely you cam flirt with him yet its more beneficial efficient to attempt this throughout individual. nicely in case you want him you ought to ask him out its no longer as not uncomplicated because it sounds. that the perfect advice there is, dont wait til he asks you out ,you ask him and if he says no than dont waste some time with him
2016-11-27 19:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋