please help me and be specific. I had a bf for 2 years.. but i never experienced his male organ. I mean i never had sex with him, but we did do lot's of other stuff, like touched and stuff.. does that mean im still a virgin or no?
2007-02-12 17:54:57 · 25 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Technically, you are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse - meaning a guy puts his penis inside your vagina. Whether or not he ejaculated wouldn't matter at that point. Now, there are some people who would consider any type of sexual activity - whether it be touching, oral sex, anal sex, or something else - to be no different than having sexual intercourse. Personally, I would still consider you a virgin. If you are talking about the subject with your current boyfriend, I would be honest about the fact you have fooled around in the past. Tell him you've never had intercourse, but you have done other things. Odds are he won't care, but it's best to be honest.
If your virginal status is something that concerns you for religious reasons - like you want to save it for marriage, I would suggest you refrain from doing anything in the future. Even if it's not vaginal intercourse, sexual activity is still sex.
2007-02-12 18:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you are. Sex is described as intercourse between a male and a female, that means that their genitals meet each other. Please be cautious in continued relations with this great guy since someday he might put you in that certain situation...
Make your relationship about how you interact with each other and not about how good you feel, by doing the things that you described in your question.....Sex was meant to populate or create a child, so having that intercourse means you are capable of supporting someone through a job, education, and emotional capability.
2007-02-12 18:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lose your virginity when his male organ goes inside. If that's never happened, then you're still a virgin.
2007-02-12 17:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? hasn't anybody ever talked to u about? if not than u better talk to someone. yes u r still a virgin. if u didn't know that than you shouldn't have a boyfriend and don't let a boy touch before you know what your doing and know the consequences that may incur. talk to your mom or your gym teacher someone that u can trust and you look up to
2007-02-12 18:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by stop2wade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as my knowledge...
You are a virgin physically.
But you lost your virginity whenever you wanted to make love with your bf mentally.
2007-02-12 18:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Nenet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are still a virgin!
Damn, girl...You seriously should go for some sex education for your own good.
2007-02-12 18:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless his penis has gone inside your vagina then you are still a virgin, inside your vagina you have a thin layer of skin, when a guy puts his penis inside it breaks the skin, therefor labelling you no longer a virgin.
2007-02-12 18:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kim c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its however a person takes it....most ppl believe if their hymen breaks their not a virgin...but some ppl r born with a hymen or their hymen breaks by gettin hit down there hard....but from the things ur saying i can honestly tell u dat u r a virgin....touching doesnt do anything.
2007-02-12 17:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be, provided on what you said you did a lot of other staff it does not mean fingering or poking in or something like that.
All the best!
2007-02-12 18:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his penis went all the way inside your virgina then you are not a virgin u would know it cause it hurts the first time!!!!
2007-02-12 18:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋