i'm single again and is dating after a long time but i'm confused cause i went out with this guy,he did not call me after so i call him(which i regret but couldn't resist)he ask me out again but never show up or call to say anything,he pays me a visit 2 days later, ask me out again but he never showed up or hasn't call me since.So i had this date last nite with a different guy that didnt turn up either(this particular guy doesn't know much of me cus we never really talk)what is confusing is how can two guys stand me up when they both were crazy over me did anything to get a date with me.what is happening here and what do i do now?Am i just having some bad luck here? Should i call them up and demand an explanation or just leave them alone & move on?It hurts cause i'm lonely and now has the confidence of trying new things and meeting new people.
2007-02-12 17:38:02 · 8 answers · asked by sassynik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave them alone and move on. confusion is not a very good sign. time to love yourself, and by that i mean move on do what it is that you really like doing as a woman.
2007-02-12 17:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Beanie.beanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just ran into some bad luck.... I think you should just leave them alone and not look back, especially with this first guy, stood you up twice!!!! NO, no, no, no!! do not do another date with him!!! Get to know someone, talk to him for a while, be friends at first if you can, then your confidence wont be shot down, and less likely that you ll get hurt. And if it doesn't work out romantically then you have gained a friend.
2007-02-13 01:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mindy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ur bad luck but it can be their's. secondly, may be they have found somebody else thats y they don't pay attention to u or may be they feel that u r not their type of gal etc etc ( u must be knowing how boys are right?) so just leave them. if they don't contact u/call u, then y r u calling them and giving importance and falling urself down? its not at all going to help dear. its clear that u r not in love with any of them then y don't u try somewhere else??? u will definitely get somebody better then these guys. all the best...
2007-02-13 01:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ishq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call him but don't demand an answer just talk to him for a minute make sure hes comfortable talking to you and ask why he is not showing up and if he doesn't answer you then just hang up and leave him alone. take my advice i had the same thing happen to me and that worked. but just make sure you can still be good friends.
2007-02-14 13:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't waste your time calling him, he's not worth your effort. I know it hurts to be lonely but maybe these guys are picking that up about you and it's scaring them away.
Play harder to get, guys like to work for a reward and don't give out so quickly.
2007-02-13 01:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON.....Keep looking you will find the right one for you....Don't let these guys create a badd name for the rest of the good guys out there.....You will find a good one trust me...keep an open mind.......Be lonely is good for you trust me, find who you are first...then the right one will come. Keep your chin and good luck to you.
2007-02-13 01:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by acurarockz@rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this isnt a website for this but i wouldnt stand anybody up and i am single. im not trying to be forward and im not desperate. write me if your interested
2007-02-13 01:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by allynrobert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUP....
2007-02-13 07:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋