I have already been betrayed by my boyfrnd several times still i forgave him. Ilove him from bottom of my heart truly. now that he does not have other girl apart me he demands for sex which he has already had several times.he always teases me as before regarding my small house ,vehicle ,never wished me on bithday i have always gifted him and prayed for his welfare. he says he cannot remember itand considers sex as a part of romance.many a times he insults me by misunderstanding my words and misjudjes me he is 7 years younger to me i cannot understand what to do? I believe in truth commitment respect understanding in love he is not so serious about me.as such i do not expect anything from him except true feelings. Am i more demanding or not eligible for him?
2007-02-12 17:33:55 · 23 answers · asked by YUPPY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi this is vic200052@yahoo.com and i wud like to be very honest and tell u that this guy who u r madly in love with is just too lusty. He actually wants just [hysical pleasure from you. This is true that sex plays a very important role in your life but if he does not care for your feelings, does not remember your birthday, does not understand what you mean to say to him and throws a fight for petty things, it is better u start ignoring him for sometime and see if he comes to you. If you are not comfortable with the thought of sex, avoid him. If you want any more clarifications, i would be glad if you can email me or add me to your messenger so that we can chat and maybe think over a little more
regards/vic
2007-02-13 00:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
y? r u being so harsh on ur self
i beleave u understood that this guy is not inlove with u and what he want is only lust from u
and if ur looking for true relationship then find a guy loves u respects u understands u n dont insults u about ur house or anyother thing
ur with the the wrong person girl live him this will be the best gift for urself n god will be so happy from ur this decision because god gave us beautiful life then y to make ti ugly by beaing with such n ugly hearted people
spent more time for ur self stand in fornt of merror and say im good beautiful n smart n i will get a my true prince charming soon and u know what u will get ur true prince charming one day so please dont waist ur life n happiness on crush of such pig head
god bless you
2007-02-13 04:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would let the boyfriend go. You need someone that makes you feel good not that makes you feel small. It sounds as if you can not even trust him. If you decide not to give it to him any more is he going to go out and cheat on you again? Dont downgrade yourself over some man. No one is worth getting treated like dirt. Just think of it this way do you really want to live your life withs some one who is always going to insulting you or would you rather respect yourself and wait for the right guy to come around that is going to treat you like a princess. Good Luck
2007-02-13 01:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have got a clear indication that this person is not the correct man for you. Be bold and take the decision that is best in your interest. The sooner you leave him the better for you. Think abt it - if you get preg then what will you do???? Are you willing to commit your whole life to a person whom you claim that you love. After a time the love will fade and then it would be too late to step back. It is a difficult decision but sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
2007-02-13 01:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dimple 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend is too young to understand the thin line about love and what it involves. Looks like he is too busy, and sees this relationship purely on the basis of sex.
You are matured enough, if you are seeking a life partner to understand you as you are, then probably you stuck with something do not know how to deal with. I hope you seek sense in this relationship, I mean if your young partner understand the relationship in whole. For, it wouldn't been long enough, to get yourself hurt more. What if he finds someone of his age, while at that age you would be looking more aged?
Seek a new partner, who cares about you and who would love everything about you than your body alone. Good Luck!!
2007-02-13 01:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by afraid talking 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi... ur boy friend is too young to understand the materialistic world which is there beyond the act which he does... You being a girl can change... while having it share your emotions & the real feel. this is the best time to share & express. make a check point.. these people can be rectified only at these moments....
2007-02-13 08:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Shankar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Judging by what you wrote, you deserve better. He can demand sex when you have a ring on your finger, after you walk down the isle and say "I do". Find someone that will remain faithful to you. Good luck!!
2007-02-13 01:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by flwrgyrl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi, ur boyfriend is using u emotionally and physically if in read u right.
just dump him like a piece of shi....t.
he should not demand sex from u . although he may consider an essential; part , it MAY naturally flow out from relationship.
his doesnot care as he does not remember ur b ay etc so he does'nt deserve u.
2007-02-13 02:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by rajrashipune 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you doing with this punk!.??
His only serious intention for you is to get in bed with you.
until another girl comes around for him to flirt with.
Tell him your pregnant see how much He loves you then..
I'll bet he will be out the door faster than his shadow..
Get rid of him and resume with your happy life..
2007-02-13 01:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Angus. 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is... whatever I want to say isn't printable.
You're wasting your time with him, completely and utterly. He doesn't deserve the attention.
I suggest you drop him like a hot potato.
A nice person like you could always find someone better.
2007-02-13 07:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kira 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋