I want to go to the mall with my friends, but my dad thinks I am not old enough...I am a girl....going through pueberty, and right now I am in the anger stage....I NEED TO GO SHOPPING!!!! BUt my dad has no time to take me, I can't go with his girlfriend, and I have absolutly no clothes...HELP ME!!!
2007-02-12 17:23:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
1. kick ur dad.
2007-02-12 19:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk the girlfriend into taking you.
She will be happy to do it to score points with you which will in turn score points with your dad
Use her to your advantage.
Tell her you want to spend time together with her and get to know her before she marries your dad. On the way there, tell her how much ou appreciate her friendship and how your dad made such a good choice when he picked her. Tell her how much you like her because she treats you like a teen and not a four year old.
Tell her that you always wanted another mother figure (butter her stupid azz up with talk like that and not only will she take you she will give you some money to spend too).
When you get there ask her if she would mind if you met her back at the food court in 2 hours or so.
Even if she feels used, so what, it is not like she can tell your dad (dad doesnt want to hear anything bad about YOU from HER)
She will love the time and the brownie points it is buying her with your dad.
ON the way back ask her about life when she was your age (she will love the chance to talk about herse). When you get a break (she might not shut up so force a break if you need to), reinforce how much your appreciate her being so generous with her time and how much 'better' she is then the other bytch your dad used to date. Tell her that you think YOU are the reason that former girlfriend and your dad broke up but that you would NEVER do that to her because you just feel so close to her. (look and sound innocent in your delivery).
Towards the end of the drive, tell her how nice it is to have an adult (her) that really understands you and how glad you are that she is going to be your dads next "wife" (cover your mouth like you gooofed in saying that "wife" part
Lather, rinse, repeat!
2007-02-12 17:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your dad has good reasons not to let you go while you are in the stages of puberty. He is protecting you from all these wild guys out there, he is just protecting you like a good father should. If he says to wait until you are old enough, then you should listen to what he is telling you. Eventually, you will get to go to the mall when you are older. Just be patient and respect your father.
2007-02-12 18:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he doesn't want you to become a mall rat. But he is not being reasonable. If you need clothes, he needs to help you find a way to go if you can't go with your friends. Calm down and try and talk to him reasonably. Don't whine and beg, just tell him you need to go shopping, how can he help you get there so you can shop for new clothes and such. Don't bring up the friends right now. That will come in time. The more you can encourage his trust now, the easier it will be later on.
2007-02-12 17:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ok, nicely before everything, 14 is plenty to youthful to be in a brilliant mall with some pals. There are undesirable human beings obtainable! So. tell him why you go with to circulate. tell him some reward. Like getting new outfits so which you have something to positioned on in case you "wreck" or outgrow different outfits. basically make something up. tell him which you will pay for your self. Be polite; do no longer beg. do no longer pout. do no longer cry or yell or be recommend or slam doors or throw issues. attempt to get your pals to back you up. If no longer, ask your mom!! solid good fortune.
2016-11-03 07:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your dad know your friends personally? I think it would help if he gets to know your friends and know that they are all just good kids, that way he won’t be so worried about you hanging out with them. Sometimes the mall really isn’t very safe for teenagers, so since your dad's busy, maybe your friend’s mom or dad could go along with you guys instead?
2007-02-12 17:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by cakes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take his girl friend in your room so you can be along with her, and try to convince her to allow ask your dad can you to go to the mall. Also question your dad why he don't trust going to the mall with his girl friend?
God Bless
2007-02-12 17:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sit down some night and watch the T.V. program "Most Wanted" just for one night.. and then go and thank your dad for his strong objectives about you going to the mall.
He does mean well and He does not want to see his baby girl on that t.v. program or her picture of lost children in WallMart or other places..
2007-02-12 17:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Angus. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you are > 12 I would be worried about letting you go alone to the mall... there´s a lot of sick people out there... now, have you been a good girl?
2007-02-12 17:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by doctorhector 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have no clothes? Well, if you're running around naked in front of your father, you need to call social services.
Otherwise, grow up, and get some perspective. This won't be the last "injustice" you will have to face in your life.
2007-02-12 17:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Shop online.
2007-02-12 17:48:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋