my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and we have a one year old child together he told me he couldn't see me on valentines day but he wants me to marry him.. he says that will be my valentines day gift.. i am confused i don't know if he said that because he can't come see me our if he really wants to marry me.. do you think i should.
2007-02-12 17:18:10 · 7 answers · asked by Melinda D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you've been together for 4 years and you have a kid together.... what are you waiting for?
2007-02-12 17:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Metallico 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!! If he really loves you he wouldn't do it for valentines day. He should of waited till the next time he sees you in person and dropped on one knee and pulled out a ring and popped the question. Besides you should of already been married before the kid came along.
2007-02-13 01:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by rustyfan022000 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you love him and you are really sure he loves you, i will say go for it and think of it you guys got a 1 year old child and im guessing his treating the child good so why not?
2007-02-13 01:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to get all confusion taken care of. talk to him and make sure that is what he wanted and if it is do what you feel is best for your child and you and do what God wants you to do and not what others want you to do.
2007-02-13 05:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT if you're not keen. Whatever his real intention is, he's already indicating that he WANTS to get married to you.
2007-02-13 02:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i think its because he has seen nothng special about you that why he said it blatantly.why couldnt he be more romantic about it.i guess you have to be sincere here,cos i know this is what you have been waiting for,for years but tell him not to be casual about you and make you feel like you ought to be treated.
2007-02-13 02:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by bamboke 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have been together and have a child, say yes! Congrats!
2007-02-13 01:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋