i go to college full time! and my parents pay for my car and insurance! i recently get quite my part time job! but i want to get on my feet! my mom constantly reminds of what a financial burden i am to her! ive let her talk and complain and ***** to me but i never talk to back or say anything to her! but im so fed up with it should i have the right to talk back at her and tell her off! or do u think its messed up! i mean i appericate what she does for me but the constant reminder of me being a burden can take a toll on you! shouldnt your kids be worth it!
2007-02-12 17:15:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
this goes out to Stop2wade:
did u even read my question correctly i ask should i have the right to talk back to my mom. I never said i had the RIGHT to talk back! so excuse you! I appericate what my parents do for me! I know im lucky! i never talked back or yelled at my mom for nagging at me! an education is a parents responsibilty to provide for a kid! i would be embrassed as a parents if I cound'nt pay for them to go school! I am doing something good for myself I'll be a nurse by next year so! you know i do go to school! think twice or actual learn how to read things threw before you say stuff! thks
2007-02-12 17:49:09 · update #1
you really have a lot of nerve. can you aford your college cost and your car and the insurance? and why did u quit your job? you say that you think you have the right to talk back to your mom well you better stop and think about it for awhile beings that you have no means to support your self and your parents are paying for everything you should thank god for what you have so stop complaining and start doing something own your own or better yet think about they are giving up so you can have education
2007-02-12 17:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by stop2wade 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A kid (any age) should never be considered a burden by a parent. It's cruel and unfair for your mom to say that to you! Your parents should be proud of you! Your going to college and that is most parents hope and dream for their kids. Unless they can't afford it, I believe parents owe their kids a decent education so that they can earn a degree and obtain a good job. Never feel that you're a burden...you did not ask to be born and had no choice in that matter. Stay in college and do your best..whether that makes your mom happy or not, at least you will have a chance for a happier future. Good luck to you.
2007-02-13 01:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't have the right to talk back to your mother. maybe you should try getting a job to help a little with the expenses (I am not saying this to be mean but it is just a suggestion that may help keep your mom happy). I understand that you are doing something positive but try helping out as mush as you can and maybe it will keep her quiet until you are finished school. Good luck and Congrats on becoming a nurse.
2007-02-13 13:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are alot of good parents that just don't have the money to send their kids to school you sound like a spoiled brat your mom nags because she thinks you should start being responsible and pay your own way like an adult just because she gave birth to you don't mean she owes you for the rest of your life you should GET A JOB and pay your own bills......................
2007-02-13 02:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by BIZGIG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 sides to every story ! Maybe you and your mom just need a day together to talk, relax and openly communicate. Maybe there is more behind all the stress! Hopefully by talking, it will come out. I think you both love each other alot, But still think maybe more going on than just money...
Good luck!
2007-02-13 10:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by pam m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her that you appreciate what she's doing for you? If not, tell her. Then let her know that while you appreciate it you don't like being made to feel like your such a burden. Maybe she doesn't realize how she's making you feel or she just doesn't think you appreciate it. Try talking to her it might bring your relationship with her closer.
2007-02-13 01:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by beach_babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mum does that whne she's really stressed and I get sooooo annoyed! She's allowed to think it but it doesn't make me feel any better when she tells it to me! I think the fact that you are trying to make your own living should be acknowledged by your mum because it's not like your not trying. But I also think you should wait until you can definantly supoort yourself before you break away.
2007-02-13 01:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by sumthing_to_say_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are paying the bills and shes probably stressed out just give her a hug and tell her you love her now and then. telling her off will make matters worse for you and your future will be brighter by sucking it up.
2007-02-13 02:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by dan m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your parents just want the best for you, just get a better job
2007-02-13 01:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋