I still love her somehow, but I don't know if I should consider taking her back at some point or not...
2007-02-12 16:39:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Idiot...she did it once, she will do it again, keep it pushin and be true to urself, If she loved you she would not have cheated.
2007-02-12 16:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..............you will ALWAYS remember it and it will take a reallllllllllllllllllll long time to completely forgive and trust her again..........if ever. I don't know the circumstances of everything but do know what I have already said is 100% true. Depends on what type of guy you are. Do you give 2nd chances? There is nobody that can tell you the right or wrong answer. It all depends on your feelings. For me...........the thought of never being with her again..........hurt more...........than the pain of her cheating. The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater"......is not true either. Consider all of the details of the situation..........and let yourself be the judge....try some reasoning. College and under 25 are some good starters. Good luck and hope everything works out for you.
2007-02-13 00:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by dylancv62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think you should take her back! You'll never be able to trust her again! You'll do your head in wondering what she's upto when your not around. I would anyway. If she really did truly love you she wouldn't of cheated on you in the first place!! I don't know how you would even be able to look at her after something like that? Sure everyone deserves a second chance but when it comes to something like that i dont think they do. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better!! She obviously doesn't love you enough or think that your relationship was important enough to walk away. Dont take her back!!
2007-02-13 00:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by metal4eva_19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, once a cheater always a cheater. Believe me my friend. I was married for ten years, my marrage was torn apart by other reasons. I had a few friends that had there wifes cheat on them and it did not work. U will always have that in the back of your mind and it will always be brought up in conversations time to time, and it is not healthy for any relationship. Good Luck.
2007-02-13 00:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by take-it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have trust you don't have anything. Once that is broken its hard to earn and regain that trust back. Are you willing to forgive I mean really forgive, not to throw it in her face every chance you get or during a fight? If your willing to do so be prepared to put in work!!! its going to be hard, but if she's really sorry and still loves you and you love her; give it anthoer chance ( everybody deserves a second chance ) If she does it again Kick her BUTT to the curb, do not pass go and don't collect two hundred dollars
2007-02-13 00:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no, because if she really and truly was in love with you than she wouldn't have done something to hurt you so bad, and my personal motto is once a trick, always a trick, meaning she's going to cheat again.
2007-02-13 00:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by xengold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Not take her back!
she says she loves you but is it ONLY you?
even if it's ONLY you that she loves, she already cheated on you.
she will cheat again with or without you again and again until she dies. leave her in hell now, don't get dragged into it.
There are so many girls who will love only you forever.
2007-02-13 00:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by daisyleemie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question, only you can answer. If you still love her then maybe. If you think there is someone better out there for you then call it quits. If you can live through another heartbreak if she does it again then i say go for it.
2007-02-13 00:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not justify her wrong doings.. and don't mistake çhallenge in to love. Try to find someone new whom you think deserves your love and affection, i'll assure you, later on you'll feel how stupid you've been if you continued your relationship with your cheating EX-GF..
2007-02-13 00:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by clai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she ? Regardless once a cheat aways a cheat
2007-02-13 00:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Amie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋