I keep on getting hit on by guys, and its getting extremely frustrating. Please tell me you feel the same way. Guys at work, school, even my friends, or when i go somewhere like the store or something, guys hit on me. Please dont think I'm asking this just to feel good about myself like thinking to myself "whoo hoo look at me im this girl who's very attractive or too good for anyone". Because i dont feel that way. Getting hit on once or twice is flattering, but having to do the rejection so many times is getting extremely annoying. You know what i mean right? I know you do, but tell me what do you do to not get these excessive unwanted attention. Men if you're reading this: what turns you off in a woman that would make you to not even wanting to approach a woman and ask her out? Any answers/solutions are greatly appreciated, just dont suggest bad hygiene or wearing weird clothes lol. im 22, if it was within boundaries I would wear a sign that says "Im not looking, leave me alone please
2007-02-12 16:39:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a cheap wedding ring and wear it
2007-02-12 16:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't realized it yet, but when you are in a relantionship your confidence level rises dramatically. People can sense this, and thus this is why many guys are hitting on you.
The same thing happened to me when I get into a relantionship, even other people remarking how different I acted.
Just continue to deny guys, there is really nothing else you can do. Do not let it get to you, if those guys are just now noticing you then they are out of luck! I know it may be hard, but do not be ashamed or feel bad turning them down. Just be direct, never lead any of them on!
I hope this helps!
2007-02-12 17:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alenna M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I get hit on a lot too, and I have a serious boyfriend. I don't dress down or avoid going to places where a lot of guys are. I know it sounds kinda creppy, but I just ignore the guys that come on strong. If some guy gives me a compliment I just smile, say thanks and look away. I try to ignore it as much as I can.
2007-02-12 16:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 08:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha, I've been having this problem, too, lately. I think if you keep to yourself a bit more that helps. Like, don't make eye contact, appear preoccupied.. It helps me.
2007-02-12 16:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you have a girlfriend!!!
2007-02-12 16:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by sunnygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get fat
2007-02-12 16:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋