Do you think Valentines Day is when i'll truely find out if he cares about me?

Question

I have been seeing this guy on my crew team (i'm the coxswain)(only girl on the mens team)and he is the best rower on the team. We have been seeing each other for 4 weeks now, we mainly hang out weekends(espically in the early hours)We see each other everyday at pratice and talk to each other about every day on AIM

Here's the thing, because we are on crew and arn't supposed to be together. Teammates arn't supposed to be dating (Yes I know i'm just asking for this to end bad). He was like my brother before and when we are around the team we act like there is nothing between us, none of the other rowers know.

We have talked about how we both mutually care for each other and how we arn't insterested in others, how it sucks we are on crew together so it can never be offical. I always question myself weather he really cares for me as much as I do him

If he dosn't get me anything for valentines day is that a sign? Is that the day 2 find out if he make any effort to show effection?

If not what could I do 2 find out if he really cares for me or if he is just using me...

should I get him something?

Answer 1

No don't worry!!! if he doesn't show his love in V-day it doesn't mean he doesn't care for you. Even thoug for girls it's a ver special day, some boys take it for granted, and just give you stuff becuase they know you like it, but they don't feel the magic of the day. And some boys are just wandering on another planet and forget to give us something even if they do care. I promise you, don't worry. I mean he still is not your boyfriend, so when they do something on V-day it can mean big, so he might not do anything to keep it going slowly. But cheer up!!! continue to be his friend, and anyday can be V-day when he is with you,,,wish you the best...see ya.