2007-02-12 16:28:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes tell him, as you are leaving.
2007-02-12 16:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly, yes you should. and your talk should not be a negotiation, it should be for goodbyes.. No matter how painful it is, no matter hard it is.. it is not worth a second chance coz cheating is cheating. Think about if it is other way around, why you need to cheat on your BF? Its either your love for him faded or you're just a worthless second timer... Do you think he'll be willing to keep you with these reasons?
2007-02-12 16:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by clai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie... if he's cheating on you... and you know for sure ... no room for giving the benefit of the doubt... your best bet is to find someone else. I know it's hard... but you can find better!!! You deserve better!!! And I PROMISE that there is someone out there waiting to find YOU... to be faithful to YOU!!! I'd politely go up to her... introduce myself... and say "you can take him or leave him... I can do bad all by myself... I don't need him"!!! I'd do this.... and not say a word to him about it until afterwards.
2007-02-12 16:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by igiveall2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't have a whole lot of respect for you to lie, cheat and break your trust. My girlfriend of many years cheated on me and I when I found out that was it. I told her I could do better than her, deserved better and moved on. It was one the best decisons I have ever made.
2007-02-12 16:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by KID87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Observe a little more, plan, when situation goes bad, attack the unexpected (not mean you go kill him or make yourself look like a psycho, i mean play with the heart and guilt cause you are in control..) or leave quietly alone... *he is cheating on you!!
2007-02-12 16:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should call him on it, cheating is a rotten thing to do to someone so hell ya call the jackass on it, because if you don`t chances are he`ll keep doing it because he thinks he can get away with it so don`t let him.
2007-02-12 16:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Goth Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my son was dating this girl for almost 4 yrs ,they where both 16 at the time .
i knew she was cheating ,but i wasn't sure how to tell him ,because i knew i was going to break his heart ,one day i told him sobbing ,and he told me no way in hell she would ever do that to him ,but i guess that stayed on the back of his mind ,months later he came to me and ask me how to catch her ,because she denied ,i told him to tell her the guy she slept with ,came to you with guilt and ask you to forgive him ,so he went to her and told him ,that let's call him Paul said that you both slept together and he felt real bad ,the story come out pouring ,that yes she been with him every time he went to work and so on ,my son told her guess what ,the son of a ***** never told me nothing ,YOU JUST DID .
2007-02-12 16:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the dramatics? If you know he's cheating, then dump him. End of story.
2007-02-12 16:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok personally I would never forgive someone who cheated on me..but yeah tell him
2007-02-12 16:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by someChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if your ready to lose him. weigh the facts
1. call him out on it and lose him
2. try to win him back
3. beat the girls butt and tell him point blank you dont share
2007-02-12 16:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by 99half 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋