2007-02-12 16:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by What? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really love her and i totally regret it but should i tell her and maybe lose a wonderful gf or don't and live a lie
2007-02-12 16:31:45 · update #1
It's obvious you don't love her or you never would have cheated on her in the first place. Be a man and admit to her what you did. Hopefully you'll learn from your mistake.
2007-02-12 16:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience. tell her. yes, it's going to hurt. and yes, there's a chance she will leave you. but you knew that before you cheated. BUT....if you don't tell her...not only is she going to be hurt. but sh'es going to think you are a cheater AND a liar. And it's going to take that much longer for her to get over it and forgive you.
just because you cheated doesn't mean you don't love her. it could very well have been an spur of the moment, or alcohol induced. BUT, that does NOT give you a good excuse and it doesn't forgive you.
You say you love her. Now prove it: #1 be a man and fess up and #2 Don't do it EVER again.
Just remember... how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?
2007-02-13 00:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by not_the_doctor79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my girlfriend but i cheated today shouldn't be in the same sentence. Just let her go whether you tell her or not is up to I think that she deserves to know but a relationship will never last based on a lie! Just free her! If you love her enough now let her be happy and get what she deserves because she deserves more than you!
2007-02-13 00:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that it's going to be hard, and you're scared to do it, but you should tell her the truth. if you don't tell her, it will get back to her somehow. things like this always do. just tell her the truth, and tell her how sincerely sorry you are and that it will never happen again, and mean it.
I understand that you really love her, and you don't want to hurt her or lose her, but she deserves to hear the truth from you.
I bet she loves you very much too. and I think when she hears what you have to say to her, she's going to be hurt, but she's going to be a lot more understanding since it's coming from you.
and you will both have a long road ahead but you can make it work.
Best Wishes.
2007-02-13 00:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so tired of guys like you. You cheat and then you regret it after. Well you know what??? Tell her and let her yell at you and dump you. Because you deserve it!!!! Dont think its harsh because how would you feel if she did this to you??? Respect her and tell her. And you can go hook up with as any girls as your would like. There was no reason to cheat if you really loved her.
2007-02-13 00:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her it would hurt her worse if she finds out from someone else... but you should have never cheated in the first place... it will take her a while to gain trust in you again though..so good luck
2007-02-13 00:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an idiot. There is no way this is not going to cause pain. I guess if you love her enough to marry her, don't tell her and never do it again. If you are just using the word love and really aren't that committed, do her a favor and tell her so she can kick your *** to the curb.
Living up to your name, huh Shady?
2007-02-13 00:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what's ur mistake ? Major or minor mistake. Not all girls not reasonable. If my bf tell me the truth on his mistake, we will talk it out n if can be repaired then it's good.
U should know how's ur gf thinking by now. If u think she can't accept it, then it's best u keep it to yourself.
Cheers
2007-02-13 00:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved her you should have never cheated dum as$$ and why did you do it? oh and one more thing she has the right to know ... every girl does. dont live in a lie.. if she loves you as much as you do her..then it will be ok.
2007-02-13 00:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by aleisha21 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you would have really loved her you would'nt cheat on her. If it was worth cheating on her then don't tell her but if it wasn't then tell her b/c what if she finds out? Just tell her I guess..
2007-02-13 00:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by brown-eyed beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋