trust or not?

Question

sorry guys didn't go into details for my last question.caught him with girl's phone no. twice.he claims its nothing,just friends.when i called the no.she said,don't know this person when i mentioned his name.ok,i try not to jump into conclusions so i told him not to delete received/sent messages,yet he still does.asked him bout this issue,he said I'm obsessed and crazy.so,told him to get details of all his phonecalls.He refused.am i to believe that he has nothing to hide,i don't know.enlignten me.

Answer 1

if you feel that you cant trust him then you need to be honest with
him and let him know this, but calling and text his phone etc
is not the way to go. that will keep thing going, talk to him and]
then do what you think is right for you.

Answer 2

I was in the same situation, exept I didn't spin out and much, you need to either trust him or not, if you don't like it and he won't stop move on or accept it simple but don't be a pysco stalker and call the girls