This guy that i work with (we're 17) seemed like he really liked me, he would always flirt with me and help me out and talk to me whenever he got the chance. Everyone at work seemed to think he liked me to. But the other day when he was flirting with me, a coworker of ours asked him when he was going to ask me out. He said that he already had a girlfriend. But i know that he doesnt because my best friend is friends with his best friend and he told her that he doesnt have a girlfriend. Why would he seem so into me then lie about having a girlfriend?
2007-02-12 16:07:55 · 14 answers · asked by likeneelyohara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he just likes flirting with you but doesn't want to go any further than that.
2007-02-12 16:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young, and Ill guess you dont have brothers. Sorry to tell you the bad news, but men all suck. They are good for a few things sometimes. I cant say every and all men, because there are a few good apples in every bunch but for the most part though men are selfish, sex crazed animals. (thats being nice even). Never allow yourself to trust what any man says, or never lead yourself to believe one thing from something he has done. With the experience of having my own relationships with men I have four sisters and have experienced all their relationships as well, we are a close family. I also have experienced having two brothers, one good one and one bad one so to say, and even the "good one" isnt that great. I have known all their friends and I know alot of behind the scenes type of details when it comes to realtionships and women especially. Like I said there are some ok guys out there, but remember they have "reputations" to live up to too, and they do. They dont want to dissapoint their fellow men. Men stick together no matter what, they dont realize that if they put all that energy into a male female relationship they will get so much further in life. I may be one sided right now because my man dissapointed me, yet again, tonight, shocking. But there is truth in my words. I wouldnt say give up on them entirely, but dont give yourself up entirely either untill it is sure he appreciates and realizes what he has. Men are good for taking advantage of a females heart, so guard yours and keep your body and what you are sacred till he has proven he is worthy of you, always keep yourself and the highest value. And dont ever let a man insult your intelligence.
2007-02-12 16:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by sweetas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole problem could be leading to this= hes very shy! when that coworker asked him when he would ask u out he was probably very self cautious and told just a little white lie about him having a girlfriend because he was shy about it ! dont trouble yourself with the thought just when your around him , have fun and be yourself and then this whole matter will just be a thing of the past=) !
2007-02-12 16:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mary Helen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be one of 2 things..........he does like you, but doesn't want to mix his feelings for you with work. Flirting is one thing, but dating your co-worker is another............many complications can arise from a work-related relationship. There may be teasing involved by other co-workers, rumors and other things...........Perhaps he doesn't want to deal with all that right now. It's very understandable. It can affect your work habit/activity. The 2nd is that he may merely be flirting for fun because he's attracted to you, but he doesn't want anything serious. The only sure way to find out is to ask him. You can't believe what you hear 2nd hand. Nothing is better than straight from the horse's mouth!!
2007-02-12 16:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did that because he doesn't want the co workers in his business. If your not sure than ask him your self if he has a girlfriend if so then leave him alone, if he doesn't then ask him if he likes you if he says yes, then go out on a date if he says no, make him keep his flirting to a minimum. its obvious that you like him so keep your distance just a little
2007-02-12 16:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesnt want anyone else to know that he likes you. Either that or he feels embarrassed knowing other people may know he doesnt have a girlfriend!
2007-02-12 16:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by loving live:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to ask you out because he doesn't want a girlfriend.He is playing the field a little bit.Basically he doesn't want to be tied down or be with just one girl!!Go flirt with someone new!! Job romance never works out.
2007-02-12 16:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have felt embarrassed and felt pressured to ask you out. He might really like you as a friend and if you like him also just stay being friends with him and see what develops if nothing sexual or long term then at least you have a good male friend and they are great friends.
2007-02-12 16:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17, he is probably not very savvy, and the co-worker embarrassed him by putting him on the spot like that.
2007-02-12 16:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by smp1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, to get you jealous and a bit motivated.. or vice versa.
Guys don't like being embarrassed about some things in life, and I guess this is one of them.
Some people don't like directly saying that they LIKE the person right in front of other people.. unless he openly flirts with just about anyone.. then that's a total loser right there. ...
2007-02-12 16:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by chopzsite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋