However, I have the ability to sense when she is being mean or in a bad mood. She will be rude and say thing s to deliberately hurt me. This is not indicitive of christian behavior. I know everyone has bad days and is only human, but I feel a strong spirit of hate coming from her. I was going to church but I just stopped going because she has literally hindered my spirit and as you know if someone hates you, it is the spirit of murder. I have went down hill with my health since she has been like this. I believe in the power of God and I also believe that satan uses some people who are blinded. Your thoughts.
2007-02-12 16:06:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Betty boop, you're barely out of diapers and you put mouth in gear before brain.
2007-02-12 16:17:43 · update #1
It is best spiritually and physically to avoid toxic relationships, even with your relatives. Practice forgiveness as much as you can, but then stop casting your pearls before swine. There is nothing un-Christian about this perspective. You and those around you will be better off, too.
2007-02-12 16:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Mr. Religion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's newly introduced to Christianity which is what it sounds like, then there will be times she lapses back to old ways.
I doubt there is any satanic involvement here...sounds more like you are empathic which simply means you sense people's feelings...body language plays a role in this observation and you are able to tell her mood by how she acts or reacts to things.
Staying out of her way or exiting when it's convenient to do so without it irritating her more, would be the best way to handle her moods. She could be dealing with health issues of her own which could result in her sudden rude behavior towards you.
As for your health? It could be somewhat related to stress but getting seen by a doctor is the best chance you have of stopping any illness that might be developing...or at least having it treated so that you aren't more affected by this situation. Talking to her when things have calmed down ... non-confrontational -- may help you and her get through this problem.
Good luck
2007-02-12 16:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you prayed over this mil and asked for the bondage chains to be broken from her? You are so right about someone hindering your growth in God/Christ/Holy Spirit. We are to "test the spirits"... you left this church because of the bondage of your mother in law, but there is something much deeper. She might have the spirit of jealousy as well. Do you believe in anointing with oil? If so, when you are around her... anoint the grounds... her shoes.. her coat... etc.... if she has the spirit of hate.. etc... she will be restless... uneasy.. you are in a spiritual warfare... get with other believers... pray, pray, pray... prayer is the most important piece of armor we can put on... from God. Each morning... before you get out of bed.. put the full armor of God on....get in a God fearing church... don't just stay away from the fellowship. I'm in the same position.. I left do to two individuals in the church I went to... however... I'm looking for a church now to attend. God bless you!
2007-02-12 16:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy I had one of those, just ask God to humble your heart.
Speak to her in a nice tone how you feel. Let her know that you have a different opinion. Girl I feel you i know what you are typing.
Pray. for her also to stay out of your way. The power of God is strong, but you must not give up. And yes satan use people all the time to fight against us, always that is his job. Keep your head up with a smile dont let satan are you mother in law "Win".
I still battle with my ex-mother in law on our son."Pray"
Take care.
2007-02-12 16:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by dee free 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs a spiritual intevention. Remember, we do not wrestle with flesh, but with demons. She has a bad spirit about her, and it needs to be released. I would have a talk with her pastor and explain to him what is going on. He can take it from there. Also... take some annointing oil and when you are over at her house, pray, and dab a little bit on things she is always touching. You can also do this in your own house. Good luck... I am praying for u.
2007-02-12 16:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in Satan, then you have let him win by your not attending church anymore. You can blame your MIL for "hindering" your spirit, but the final decision rests with you. You're giving your power away to others.
2007-02-12 16:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry that she is treating you in this way. Just be kind to her even though this is happening to you. Be patient with her when she acts like this.
"Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality." Romans 12:9-13
"Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another." Romans 12:14-16
I hope that everything works out!
2007-02-12 16:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw a bumper sticker with a quote attributed to Ghandi. It went:
"I like your Christ, but I do not like your Christians. They are not much like your Christ". In the old testament when Moses sees the burning bush and asks God who God is God says "I Am that I Am". Since then we have been trying to make God more narrow, more defined and more understandable that the mystery that God is. Jesus stated (paraphrase) "Love God, Love your neighbor". Since then we have been trying to make this commandment more narrow, more defined and more understandable than the mystery that it is. Treat your mother in law with the love that passes understanding, and love her regardless of her actions towards you. In doing so you will be bringing the Grace of God into the world through your relationships.
2007-02-12 16:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can let someone like her hinder you from serving God then....you have made you choice. But heads down - she is 'mother-in-law'. Listen to some of the names they are called: mothers-out-law; monster-in-law; mother-harlots What day is mother-in-law's day? Get a grip and ignore that....???!!!
2007-02-12 16:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by charmaine f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's arming herself to attack. She's becoming an extremist.
Jesus said to look within, not to constantly search for more and more words to use against other people.
I'd say don't argue with her. Just let her have her beliefs. If you start arguing against her, then it just strengthens her stance.
Anyway, it's almost a rule of life that women don't get along with their mother-in-laws, so don't take it personally.
2007-02-12 16:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋