Abt a year ago I got into a relationship with a guy that I guess I didn't know well enough. Anyway, we dated for about 3 months and we became really close. I went out of town for a week, and apparently he started talking to another girl while i was gone. I don't really know details but, from what I was told he went over her house to spend time with her and had been caught kissing her. When I asked him about he said he got caught up in a situation, but he swears he didn't cheat on me while we were together. Once I found out, we broke up and he dated her for about a month or so. It's been about 7 months since then. He's says he didn't want to hurt me and regrets it and wants to be with me again. He never apologized and he never admitted to doing anything while we were together. Though it's was only 3 months I really do care about him and am curious to see what are relationship can build into. But then again I'm young and I know there are other opportunities. Any suggestions?
2007-02-12 15:58:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would seek your other opportunities i dont think i could forgive that easy
2007-02-12 16:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say once a cheat always a cheat, I met my fiance while he was with someone else and i wouldn't for one second think he would cheat on me, i trust him 100%, we have 2 children and we are getting married in Oct, what im saying is you should maybe give this guy a chance, you will always wonder what would of been if you walk away, tell him he has one chance and if he messes up then you walk away for good, but whatever you do dont be a doormat to this bloke, show him who's boss
Good luck in whatever you decide :o)
2007-02-13 04:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by ✿Regina Felangie✿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has never apologised...... Your words. Any decent guy would have tried a lot harder. Just remember that. He never said he was sorry.
You care about him but there is a difference between caring about someone and trusting them.
He also dated her straight after you. He sounds quite selfish.
If he was a caring guy he would have tried a lot harder. It is a reflection on the type of person he is.
When you look back on this you will be glad you didn't give him a second chance....
Why?..... because he does not deserve it.
It is natural to look back and wonder.
Don't. Keep walking, going forwards and making good life choices for yourself.
You can choose not to go back to a guy who has no respect for women. x
2007-02-13 02:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this dude has serious choice issues sweety please don't get hurt by the same mistake if he couldn't per say 'say no to a kiss' then lied about actually dating the person then it's how does the saying go a leopard cannot change his spots sweety there are many fish in the sea I promise you can do better good luck in your decision
2007-02-16 17:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by MinX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you stay away from this guy. If he was innocent and honest, he would have simply have stayed away from the other girl. He got caught with her, and he made excuses.
He's not the right one. If you stay with him, he will keep on hurting you.
2007-02-13 00:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women never forgive. They can only forget.
2007-02-13 00:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by pakir poyum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him, give him another chance and see what he does with it. if he messes up again, u have ur answer. u know he just can't help himself. good luck,
2007-02-13 18:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch this guy. Move on!
2007-02-13 00:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Athenart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat, always a cheat!!!
2007-02-13 00:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
forget about him!!!!!!!forget about his cheating,lying *** he is not worth it
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