OKAY.. here is how hes acting..
1. hidding his phone from me and WONT let me get ahold of it.
2. telling me that hes at one place but is on the other side of the county
3. i stopped by his house and he accused me of sneaking up on him because i didnt call and accused me of "trying to catch him or something"
4. really angry compared to being loving and caring
5. rarely picks up the phone
6. i can call him but i cant alert him so hes on the phone at midnight with someone else...
Hes making me cry everyday and he just doesnt care. I talked to his dad and hes trying to tell me to give him his space and when i talked to by bf, he said he doesnt want space. He says that when we have sex, its the only time we are close together, which broke my heart and makes me seem like a sex slave. 2 year relationship down the drains or should i fight to stay together? I need help!
2007-02-12 15:57:52 · 16 answers · asked by Nervous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geez, lady, dump this guy, already! Even if he isn't cheating on you (doubtful) his continued hurtful behavior is not doing you or your relationship any good.
You can do better than this; don't waste any more time on this guy.
2007-02-12 16:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that there might be a slight possiblilty of cheating.
But there might be something else in his life that is bothering him and being a guy he won't tell you or anyone else.
Sometimes giving someone some space even though they say they don't need it is the best thing to do because if he is treating you like trash you should be taking it your only human.
if he wants to keep treating you like trash then sometimes the best thing to do is let go despite how it may hurt sometimes all it takes is a slap in the face( not literally) for him to realize what has happened.
Talk to him about it again and this time threaten to break up with him if he doesn't tell you whats going on and don't be his sex puppet anymore your better than that, if he doesn't want to love you and care for you anymore you deserve better, and sometimes when you threaten to break up and are actually serious about it he may just realize what he is doing is really hurting you and if he doesn't care about then leave him, there are better people out there for you.
You just need the right one to come along that will treat you right and not like a sex puppet and mistreat your emotions.
2007-02-13 00:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to let someone go espcially after so long but I think it is time-if he wants to stay with you then he will fight for you. Why is he accusing you of trying to"catch" him-sounds like he has something to be guuilty about. And his phone-why not let you see it? My best friend's ex was doing the same thiing with his phone and when she did finally get ahold of it there were messages from another girl-it broke her heart but she has moved on and is now alot happier with someone who treats her the way she deserves. Also if he doesn't care about your feelings-like amking you cry-then he is not even worth your time. As soon as my friend started moving on and not caring he wanted her back SOOO bad-but it was too late. Don;t call him and act needy-let him call you-and don't give him any sex right away either-you deserve more respec then that. Stay Strong!!!
2007-02-13 00:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by 2princesses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.you don't want to find his phone and look at the numbers
2.sometimes so people don't like to be question about where they are
3.why would he get angry if you stop by if he is doing nothing wrong
4.did you ask him what he is so angry about
5maybe he don't want to talk to you
6.maybe he is keeping the phone off the hook
If the only time he feel close to you is when the two of you are having sex then that should tell you something-the relationship is over-you are now the one to look at yourself and ask yourself the question is the relationship worth saving are not-sex is no reason to stay in a relationship with anyone-sex is not love CHEATER YES
2007-02-13 00:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know the ages here and perhaps that does not matter...Maybe he is having some personal problems? Financial, etc. Let it be for a few days and see how he reacts to that. Talk to him, not his dad! If you have to fight to keep a relationship going, it is not worth it...
2007-02-13 00:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does not feel the same in the relationship that you do. I see too many red flags and yes, I would put this relationship behind you, mend your heart and someone down the road will be the right person.
2007-02-13 00:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Nonnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your bf is making u cry everyday then u dont need to ask if u should stay or not...he seems really paranoid about something so he could be cheating, but he might not. listen to ur gut feeling, its usually right
2007-02-13 00:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be a little more trusting... going through someones phone is kinda ... not cool ... but if your telling him your feelings and he doesn't try making you happy no use on trying to stay with someone thats not making you happy... the only thing worse than spending another day with someone that doesn't make you happy is spending two days.
2007-02-13 00:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but his body language and his attitude just points to one thing. hes avoiding you. only thing you can do is to see if hes avoiding you cause of another woman or because of stress at work or at home. giving him his space might help him clear his mind and reflect on what hes doing.
2007-02-13 00:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating on you, and i'd move on and kick his butt to the curb. You definately deserve better than what this jerk has to offer in life. While it may be hard to do this, it's definately something you need to do. Move on and find a real man.
2007-02-13 00:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋