as a man when you kiss your girl (not a kiss that comes before sex just a normal kiss to show affection) do you think its normal to be aroused and if you noticed what would you think? (also putting in mind weve agreed to be celebant.)
2007-02-12 15:45:01 · 18 answers · asked by uncrowned ruler 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AROUSED DOESN'T MEAN YOU CAN'T BE CELEBATE. SHE SHOULD BE HAPPY THAT YOU DO HAVE THE EQUIPMENT JUST IN CASE SHE NEEDS YOU TO DO THE JOB. PERFECTLY NORMAL, WE CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT OUR HORMONES ARE DOING NEITHER CAN WE CONTROL OUR AROUSAL FACTOR. I WOULD JUST THINK YOU'RE A GUY, AND A DAMN GOOD SELFDISCIPLINED GUY TO BE AGREEING TO CELEBACY.
2007-02-12 15:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by LIZACUTIE 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having considered celibacy recently (and quickly pitched that idea) and having often noticed a little (or a lot) of reaction to a simple (or not so simple) kiss, I believe I'm qualified (or at least willing) to say, I'd be totally and sweetly amused, flattered and moved by the arousal of my man. Knowing it's just nature at work, hoping I had a little to do with it and now that I'm NOT going to be without sex I would also have to ACT on it. But in your case (if I was in that situation) I would just have a nice feeling and move on.
Quite normal, quite acceptable and quite common. No worries.
2007-02-12 15:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. Boys get aroused really easily, and I think you can be aroused by kissing and still remain celibate for a while (I've done it). If the girl notices I think she would be flattered (I always was).
2007-02-12 15:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty normal to be aroused. When i kiss my boyfriend I get aroused... but as a girl I don't really show it if you know what I mean. If I saw my dude get aroused when we were having steamy, hot kisses- I'd love to know that he was turned-on by me. I don't personally like guys who try to hide that they like me. So if you were aroused and it showed, I'd say.. "more power to you, i'm glad I turn you on."
-Kay
2007-02-12 15:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. It just shows you're attracted to her. As a female, no, I wouldn't be offended by it. We'd probably just smile, make a joke about it to break the tension or whatnot, and move on with whatever we had been doing before we started kissing.... the key is to just not make a big deal about it.
2007-02-12 15:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would be flattered that a casual kiss could bring such a response in a man!!yes, it is normal to be aroused, especially if you are attracted to her. why are you being celibate? are you engaged to be married??or concerned with disease?either way, if i had noticed, i would think, that was one heck of a kiss!!!
2007-02-12 15:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by debijean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. You get excited by being in an intimate situation with someone you're attracted to and like a lot. Don't worry. I have noticed it before and it didn't bother me. It's not like you can help it.
2007-02-12 15:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhm, i think thats sweet and it would make me feel good. if my bf gets a hard on when he kisses me not only would that turn me on but it will make me feel sexy and beautiful. even if u want to remain celebate! theres nothing wrong. its normal. unless ur girl is verrryyyyyy anti-sex. good luck
2007-02-12 15:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by mitlilkizbi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's normal, and if I noticed, I might teese him more so he gets even more aroused. hehe or just ignore and think oh yeah, he's turned on by me
2007-02-12 15:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by soccerjock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd think I must excite you and be flattered but considering I'm not celibate I can't take that into consideration.
2007-02-12 15:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋