i told my mom i think i am depressed and she said part of the reason is cause i am in my room all day not talking to anyone when i am actully home. so i moved my comp out into the main room to show my mom that probaly wasn't the problem. well i moved it out here like 1 week ago. and now my mom is asking me to move it back in my room. wat the hell i thought she wanted me out here now she wants me back in my room. i don't get it. wat can i do about this should i move my comp back or something. i really don't like to talk to my mom so i don't wanna do that.
2007-02-12 15:29:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i get out every weekend i was just at the movies and rodeo this weekend with my friends. and then my momcomplains about never seeing me on the weekends either cause i am always wit my friends. so i do get out just not much during the week.
2007-02-12 15:54:45 · update #1
Emawee, it sounds like your mom is a real complainer and is not taking your depression seriously. Tell her you have friends and that not talking to anyone is not the problem. Tell her she should take you to see a doctor to get you some help and/or some pills that help depression. Your mom needs to do her parenting job.
2007-02-13 13:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think your mom meant for you to move your computer out into the main room. So, you should probably do as your mom says and move it back into your room. You also probably need to cut back on your computer time and do something a little more active. Why don't you try making plans with friends or even your mom? You're probably stuck in a rut, because you do spend so much time in your room. I guarantee that you'll start to feel ALOT better if you do something else besides sit in front of the computer all the time, trust me.
2007-02-12 23:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm ive been through the same thing. What you need to do really is to explain to your mom how you really feel theres nothing better than living a life where feelings are open but if that doesnt work try and find the next closest person to you and talk to them it is vital that you tell someone how you feel its not good having bottled up feelings trust me it will lead to further things that you might not want in your life.As for the computer forget about it making this a big issue wil only worsen things.
I hope i helped if you want further help feel free to email me at moeisha_da_bomb@yahoo.co.nz
xoxoxMoeisha
2007-02-12 23:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by Moeisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not listening to what your mom is saying.Your mother doesn't want the computer out of your bedroom,she wants you out of your room. think your mom wants you to spend time actually talking in person to your friends, not just talking on the computer. It wouldn't hurt you to spend a little time with your mother either. Right now you may not feel it is important to talk with your mother.However one day you will realize that the years have passed quickly and you will regret not having a relationship with your mom.We can tell you what to do but how would we even know if you'd follow through.We can only give our opinion and hope you make a good choice.As much as you may not want to admit it your parents do love you and care about you.
2007-02-13 22:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by gussie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't sweat the confused mom stuff. Mom's get confused somtimes too. She's just concerned. They do that a lot.
If you don't feel dpressed or lonely just tell her you're not and don't worry. After all you're fine right? So don't sweat it.
If you do feel lonely or depressed get help, for yourself not your mom.
You can always call a city county depression or suicide hot line and just tell them just you need someone to talk too, they'll get you an appointment.
Never be ashamed to get help if by any chance your mom might be right, even a little bit!
Good Luck, You're great!
2007-02-12 23:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by opinionator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get out more. Being in front of the computer, though it is the window to our worlds these days, it is only a virtual window. It does not exist... Find what makes you happy and do that. And make sure it is not the computer. Seriously, spend some time outside, fine the awe in nature or things that are larger then yourself and remember that. SOmething....good luck...
2007-02-12 23:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Establish a better relationship with your mother. Spend more time with her. She is missing you. She has always been with you all your life. She will be the only mother for you will ever have in all your life.
She wants to see you happy, cheerful and outgoing. And she wants to be a part of you in your joy and enthusiasm for life.
Don't shut off yourself in your room and bury your head in the computer screen ! She has invested a lot in you. The best thing you can do for her is to be a part of her life, as well !
2007-02-12 23:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move the comp back in your room. Talk to your school counselor and tell them you are feeling depressed. They should be able to help you.
2007-02-12 23:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the comp, not the room
2007-02-12 23:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're spending lots of time on the computer... my parents use that line "in the room all day" all time.....
2007-02-13 02:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋