me and my boyfriend have been together ever since him and his ex broke up about a year and 6 months ago.....she has sent him text messages on several different occasions since then....i didnt mind about it when they had 1st broken up but she was still sending them over a year later! im not worried about him cheating or anything because he always tells me when she sends them and he has no intentions of going bak to her even if hes not with me....so what would you say to the ex gf...or would u say anything at all? what should i do?
the messages were along the lines of wanting him bak and texting on holidays, bdays ect.
would u be mad or just let it slide....let me know ur opinions ladies! thanks!
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also he does not text her back....he just ignores her completely
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he has also told her to stop texting / calling shortly after they broke up or he was going to have her # blockd from being able to call/ text
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2007-02-12 15:27:41 · 14 answers · asked by Amy N 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like i said b4 im no worried about my boyfriend cheating or anything with this girl thats not the point.....it just that her texting and not getting over it is getting on my nerves!!
2007-02-12 15:35:22 · update #1
Thats his old relationship let him handle it. If you don't have trust you don't have a relationship. If he doesn't respond to her then don't worry about it, it sounds like you have a good guy he's telling you about the messages and not hiding it from you encourage him to block out her #. If he wanted her he would be with her and not you so don't stress over this!!!! if you continue to bug him about it YOU will soon be the next ex gf texting him. So just leave it alone and let it ride. The ex wants him back and will do anything to do it including getting YOU to overreact. DO understand that you being cool,calm and collected about the whole situation is eatting her up alive!!!! Be a lady take the high road and let it ride
2007-02-12 16:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by sayj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is up with your ex and you? I mean Im fine with you guys being friends and all but I think that she wants to be a little more then friends again. Dont you think?
2007-02-12 15:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by kassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Just let her keep dreaming. It shouldn't bother you guys. Oh and he should also get the "crazy ex-girlfriend" ringtone! ITS HILARIOUS!!! "It's your ex calling...again. DO NOT PICK UP THE PHONE...I repeat...DO NOT PICK UP THE PHONE." Its great- my boyfriend got it for his ex and everytime she calls and ppl hear that ringtone- everyone just laughs. Just make a joke out of her obsessivness :-)
2007-02-12 15:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my ex bf's ex gf did the same too. her mum even called him up to ask him to visit her. but she's like not in her right mind after breaking up with him as she left him for another guy.
in the end, he changed his no. and everything stops.
2007-02-12 15:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by larisnotme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,if it's only like holiday's and stuff that's nothing,but her tellin him she wanna get bac with that's a problem. Mabe he should change his # or tell her 2 stop textin him
2007-02-12 15:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your BF doesn't replt to her texts, she'll eventually will get tired. Or if his xgf text him agian, you can tell your bf when you're together to text her to stop texting him and he doesn't love her anymore and he loves you so much. Or maybe, you can tell your bf to change his number.
2007-02-12 15:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just call her and politely ask her to stop and that its un called for to still be texting your man when she knows he is taken
2007-02-12 15:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by tonysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop if she really wanted him she would of never left him in the first place
2007-02-12 15:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tee blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy in to it. Text her yourself & then let it go. Maybe he is really enjoying it.
2007-02-12 16:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he's feeding into it either to not burn that old bridge for a bootycall now and then or he just likes the attention and eggo trip
2007-02-12 15:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋