I am working my butt off and trying to make amends with my ex. I brought her some really nice flowers...$100 worth if that makes a difference. Anyway, I delivered them to her business. She was not there but her assistant was and took them (and said "very nice, you've done good"). So the next day my ex calls and says thanks and that she wishes I would have called ahead of time (in a stern tone). Why would she say this? She wasn't even there so she did not have to see me...it worked out well. Thoughts?
2007-02-12 15:25:03 · 9 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not gonna say give up. I went through the same thing with my wife. She got tired of being just a mother and just a wife. So her answer was to eliminate me from the equation, but she wasn't sold on the idea of divorce. So I had over $100 of lowers and gift basket delivered to her work. Well that didn't work to patch things up. She actually laughed at me for doing it. Things eventually worked themselves out. We are currently coming up on the anniversary of the day she left... Valentines Day. She swears this one will be differant. Hopefully
2007-02-12 15:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by bmikey79 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sending flowers to someone's work causes a lot of problems--many nosy, annoying questions from coworkers. It also looks like you are showing off to her coworkers or trying to make her feel guilty for dumping you. So, in the future, send them to her home.
I would not apologize though, it was a gesture of love on your part to send them. She'll get over the work thing.
Have you considered asking her out for coffee or lunch (not drinks or dinner yet). If she says no to that, you're the ex and you need to move on to someone else now, and make the break, bro.
2007-02-12 15:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt care. regardless of the flowers, sounds like the girl has moved on or is seriously thinking about it. usually women that still have strong ties will be at least a little appreciative of the gesture. however, she didnt even say thank you. i would not be surprised if this does not budge her in any way.
but realize that your efforts were good.
2007-02-12 15:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by tot tot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't want to get back together with you. You are harrassing her and she's not appreciating it. Had you called ahead she probably would have told you not to come since she wasn't going to be at work. Try leaving her alone.
2007-02-12 15:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because the relationship is OVER and she is trying to move on.
2007-02-12 15:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's not interested. You're an EX and how her entire office thinks you're back in her life.
2007-02-12 15:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
because maybe she was with a guy and if u would have said something sooner maybe thing would be different
2007-02-12 15:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
An "ex" is an "ex" for a reason. The reason(s) haven't gone away so you are supposed to. Please cooperate.
2007-02-12 15:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't want you intruding unannounced at her work.
2007-02-12 15:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋