One of my best guy friends is going out with this girl and he's changes SO much!!! They were going out before but SHE cheated and they broke up, but now they're toghther again. But I can't STAND HER!!!!!!!!! I know what I think doesn't matter much, so I've never told him about this, but the other day she has the nerve to come up to me and tell me that I need to back off from him and stop talking to him and that he's her's (like he's property or somthing!!). And he hasn't called me in forever!! We used to talk like every night or every other night at the most...but it's been like 2 weeks now. I calle him sat and SHE answered his cell and was really rude and hung up on me....but I let it go because he's happy with her.
But today I saw her hissing one of the redneck boys when I was going out to my car this afternoon after school. well, should I tell him?? Is it my place? would he think that I was lying? My stomach feels like it's tied it to a thousand knots, and I don't know what todo
2007-02-12 15:20:32 · 3 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Am I just a guilt as her if I don't tell him?? Why do i feel SO GUILTY!!!!!! I didn't do anything..... and yeah, I do like him and wish that he would ask me out...but I wouldn't like try to brake them up or anything......
2007-02-12 15:22:14 · update #1
If he is shutting out his friends to be with her, he is going to have to learn the hard way. I will say, if you have the opportunity to talk to him, let him know how you feel their relationship has affected your friendship. I personally would probably let him know that I didn't trust her or like her, and let him know the rude way she is treating you. That speaks volumes about her by itself. I wouldn't tell him every bad thing that she does...that would seem like you were doing it just because you don't like her. But if he trusted you enough to value your friendship before he got with her, he should value your honesty. If he doesn't now, he will in the long run.
2007-02-12 15:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it all the time but not usually for relationship reasons. More for things I'm scared about. Like getting a test back, or I get a phone call about bad news, etc.
I hate it. One of the worst feelings in the world.
2007-02-12 23:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this situation. If things are this bad, they will break up anyway. And you won't have any involvement.
2007-02-12 23:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋