I need help with 2 questions for me!!!?

Question

1). my stepbro sleeps with his diaper on & he's 4 years old. do u think he should be wearing diapers still (he only wears it at night).
because sometimes he poops on the bed. he did some awful things to with the bed, like went in the fridge & got some eggs and ham and put it all over the bed... so is there any hope for him so he won't be doing any thing like this anymore?

2). I have swimming in school & for some reason the gym teacher won't let us take a shower before we go to the next class & the teacher cleans out the pool like twice a week, do u think it should be everyday or twice a week.

3) comments are greatly appreciated.

anyone gonna help me?

Answer 1

I wouldn't worry about your (step) brother. How many kids your age still wear diapers and spread food all over their bedding? All kids out grow this and as an older sibling you can influence his good behaviour - younger kids look up to older ones.

As for swimming, your teacher may not want shower time to cut into his class teaching time and since you just got out of water, it's not overly necessary to shower, although an arguement could be made about the drying/damaging effects chlorine has on hair. The best way to find out is to ask the teacher.

Answer 2

Ill answer the Swimming Pool Part...

Yes you should shower. You could develop possible skin irritation during the day from the chlorine in the pool. Just like at the Beach, they give you showers to get the "salt Water" off your skin, you also need to get the chlorine off your skin. Chlorine will dry out your skin, and if you have skin that gets irritated easily, this could become a problem for you.
AS for the maintenance on the pool. If it is an indoor pool, and i would suspect that it is, It probably wouldnt need to be cleaned much more than once per week as there would be minimal debris in the pool. Being a school, and a public building, the school would most likely have to keep readings of the PH level and Chlorine Levels for the Board of Health. They usually require them. So the chemicals wouldnt need to be adjusted each and every day. As a Swimming pool Technician, in the summers here in the northeast, i would take care of about 75-85 swimming pools on a weekly basis. I would only be at the pool once per week, and would adjust the levels accordingly when i was there. So as for maintenance with actual chemical levels, unless something is really out of whack, there is no need to mess with the chemicals if they test perfectly each day.

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

I think that your brother is too old to be wearing diapers . Tell your parents to take him to the doctor to see if there is a problem of some kind first. If it isn't a medical problem then it might be a behavioral problem.Ask him why he does that to his bed. Most four year olds will tell you. As for your teacher who won't let you take a shower after swimming, That is not sanitary. Check your schools policy about that,I bet you find out that it is mandatory for everyone to shower after swimming.