Hes only giving me one more chance . someone i need your advice?

Question

He likes me a lot hes 16 a junior in highschool. Im 14 a freshman in highschool he asked me out im confused with my feelings i dont know if i like him or not this is only 1 chance my last what do i do? im doubting the relationship does that mean im not ready help please im so confused! im naive anybody care to give me advice

Answer 1

You should give it a chance. Time will lift the confusion. After a few dates, you should be able to figure out if you want to continue or not.

Answer 2

I'm a little puzzled as to why this is your only chance??? If he's given you an ultimatum in any way, then I say, forget him. I can say this because I've been there in the past. I don't think there's anything wrong with getting to know someone and heck it's only a first date after all. You can let him know if you want to see him afterwards. Be strong, cautious, as he is older, and don't think of it as a date but two friends hanging out together for the night. If you do that and you end up having more feelings then just a friend, then you have your answer! Hope this helped and enjoy yourself!

Answer 3

Do not do anything that you have doubts about or feel uncomfortable with. You are a very young girl and even if you do not stay in a relationship with this young man, you will undoubtably find other people to love you. If he is abusive or pressuring you into acts you are uncomfortable with, I would distance yourself from him. Do nothing that you might regret in the future. It sounds like you are not ready for a relationship with him.

Answer 4

I would say yes if he is sweet and hot but if he is weird then no i mean i would rather date a guy my age but at the same time it would be cool to date a older guy and stuff but dont do it if he is a purv and stuff ya