well see I'm kinda shy and not good at talking to people I don't know period. I only see him for a short time each day. I don't know him because he is not in any of my classes but I really want to say something to him and that's what I need help with. Next time I see him in the hallway what should I say to him or do to him. Any suggestions? Nothing to weird now remember I have never really talked to him before so he probably doesn't like me. I try smiling but I don't know if he sees me. I want to say hi but I'm so scared. I have never dated anybody before so need your help. If only there was something I could do to draw his attention to me. I don't know his friends? How can even talk to him? What should we talk about?If you were me what would you do about the situation? Please help and Thank You!
2007-02-12 14:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To get a guys to notice you, you must do something out of the ordinary. For example if he need help on something go and help him. or if he an extra dollar give him it. a guy like a girl that is not afraid to stand up for what she believe in and what other people think about her. but dont go to far with this then he will just think you are weird. one important thing is be yourself.
2007-02-12 14:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would I do? Hm.... why dont you try to kind of "knock into him" but not hard, and look at him, smile and say "oh my bad, You know I dont think we've met, my name is_" and there ya go. I know you said you are shy, but once you see him and you get nervous just forget about being shy, just lift your head high and go for it. You will feel so much better after you do it. Right before you do it and if you get shy again or nervous, just think about how you will feel after you talk to him. Goodluck
2007-02-12 22:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since your shy start out simple just start saying hi. Thats it, its sweet, short, and simple. Just say it normal like you talk to yoour friends. Then he might start talking to you. Each day or week just say a little more each time, like hey whats up? how are you? Soon you'll get to know him much better and see if he flirts with you.
2007-02-12 22:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know what to say. I do this like every day. The thing that most guys like from my own exsperience is when you walk up to him and say your cute. I always do this when a guy does not know me. I will ask them what there name is and then I will say that they are cute. It always work. For some reason they start noticing me . I then slowly start talking to them. Trust me it works all the time. Guys love it.
2007-02-12 22:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I gotta say. TRy bumping into him ( a classic ) this is from the movies honey try it. or you could just make small talk ( you know like this, "damn homework" ) you know whatever ps that was soo way way way lame.
or just give up listen babe im tough but so is the situation.
2007-02-12 22:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Couch P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone like you and there's nothing you can do about it. And if you can't find anything of interest to discuss with him, then you must be a boring person who needs to work on your personality before being considered girlfriend material.
2007-02-12 22:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Need2Answer?s 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Pray to the Lord my child
2007-02-20 21:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Radish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself!! Don't act like all the "other" girls. You WILL find that guy (or he will find you). It'll happen when you least expect it.
Every guy is different, so expect something to work with all guys.
2007-02-20 20:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I also don't know. As for me If the guy like me he will like me, if he don't what ever we try he won't. Not sure whether my answer correct or not.
2007-02-12 22:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋