3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?
2007-02-12 14:26:55 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's not sure what he wants so he's spending time with you because he's trying to make up his mind. Or maybe he just wants to hang out sometimes and there's no hidden meaning behind it. I know plenty of people that I wouldn't mind hanging out with every now and then but don't necessarily think much of it. Who knows...I'd say just ask him, but you already did. And his answer was so general. Just take it as that. Don't put too much thought into it and don't put too much effort into seeing him every time he calls. If he wants more, he can make it a little more clear. Until then, just assume it is what it is and nothing more.
2007-02-12 14:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You only dated for a month, I don't know if you can really call him an "ex-boyfriend." In essence, you dated a couple of times over the course of four weeks.
Then, he called you a year or so later to date again. He's still "out there" and checking out the dating scene.
Apparently, he didn't see any reason to pursue things with you at the time, and going out on a date for one more time confirmed it for him, a year later. It just isn't clicking.
I don't think it's the holding out for marriage thing. If he really liked you that wouldn't be an issue, he would still respect you for that.
As the book goes "he's just not that into you." And that's ok. Go find someone else for yourself.
2007-02-12 22:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
2007-02-12 22:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him that question
2007-02-12 22:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Either he is gay or you are fat.
2007-02-12 22:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i dunno
2007-02-12 23:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋